when are u going to marry?

i am never going to get married. Do not want to. i would have liked to have kids, but it has just not happened. Sometimes that's the way things turn out wether one plans it that way or not

DINK family? ouuw just know that, but it's ok if one member of the family didn't wat to get married yet, maybe someday they will feel they need it or not at all, it's everyone decision ... I'm planning to get married, but it's secret to tell , do you plan to get married?

yes!!!hahaha i want to get married, have my own kinds, make my own family, live with the person that i love until we both get old.. i know i'll get married, with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now, i pray..hehehe he is such a nice guy and i definitely love him so much.. i want to have kids with him.. of course, bearinga child and rearing him to become a good person is something fulfilling for a woman.. i want to be able to experience that of course!

hello girl,i am so glad to know you here.i am also from china.as you said, marriage is very important in real life to two sides.so before marry with some one, people should take some necessary action to watch whether or not they are suitable to each other.i never believe the love in the first sight,and i think the real deep love depends on the better comunity between them. some people think the marriage is the very sweet thing in life, but some peole think it is the very trouble one in life.so i think the fundamental problem is whether or not you have prepared to be responsible for your partner,your family.Marriage is a simple word, but the once you married, you should be responsible for it the whole life.This is most difficult.if there is one person who couldn't deal with his own thing of course couldn't have the energy to look after the other.It is just my opinion.lol good luck

I guess to alot of people I did everything wrong. I've gotten the stares, the glares and all kinds of looks. I was unmarried, 17 years old, and pregnant. To alot of people that means abortion. Especially to my grandfather because my daughters so called "father"(more like sperm donor) had epilepsy and she MIGHT have it. I was a single parent for a long time. And you know what? Everything worked out. I'm not encouraging teenagers to get pregnant and saying it's easy. Being a parent and taking care of a baby that is totally helpless that you're responsible for is not easy!!! It did make it harder not having a partner, but I knew that my choice was a bad one, but it's outcome was good. She's 4 now, has no signs of epilepsy, I'm married to a wonderful man who loves her just as he would his own daughter. I know because we have to children together and have been married for almost 3 years now. This is why I'm not judgemental towards other teenagers when they have babies so young. I'm not perfect, neither is anyone else. And they made the same bad choice I did, but the outcome is wonderful. I'll leave you with this thought. This is something my Great grandmother told me. She said "you were'nt the fist to get pregnant and you won't be the last!"

To each his or her own beliefs about life and marriages. Marrying for the sake of getting married is questionable. Sometimes it's dictated by culture and society. I'm not getting married because people around would like to see me married because I'm nearing my 40s. I'm living meaningfully and joyfully as a single in a couple's world.

I got married at 21 and then we decided to start having kids after that. My kids are my biggest blessing. I love my kids and my family. This was the best choice for me.

I do want to marry and have a happy family. When? Ah..thats the question i dont know the answer because i still have plans for my life and my parents brothers and sisters..so i dont know yet when will be that time i can fulfill my plans for them. Only God knows about it. Besides that it is my own well to have that plan to be given to them in the future. After that,,hm its time for me to have my own family.

hopefully next year after the visa is done( pls pls pls Lord let everything went well).. and i really would love to have kids of my own.. thank you

from the time i was young i said i would never marry-I am 49 now and still not married-came close a few times-I have been with my partner now for 17 years so i guess you could say we are married but without the paper[lol]

well, for me i got marriage at the age of 27....before in entering or build my own family i want to help first my family in their financial needs...anyway i don't want to be a member of DINK family lolz...good day

when do I get to be married? I dont know the answer.maybe it is 30 or 40 years old.when I meet someone that I love deeply,I will hurry to become a family with her.In china,people must face the enormous stress that come from their parents ,relatives and friends.

I wish I can go to the world before 28,and have a baby after one year.I think it will be hard to find a right person for the lady who become more than 25 years old,because she won't be more beautiful but the man just choose the beauty to be his girlfriend ,at least the most of the man wish their wife to be younth and charming.So, when I have the ability to get married with someone when I am young,I would like to do it,for me ,the life is own to couples,not the single.

marriage is the only main thing in our life.there we are fail we are also losing our life.if tere is success we can say that our life is very successfull.there fore i think marriage is the most important thing in our life.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with not getting married. Not everyone wants to do it. Marriage is not "the sweetest thing", it's just a lifestyle choice. People who don't get married aren't missing anything, people who get married aren't magically blessed. I am married, but I decided when I was very young that I never wanted children and I told my husband when we first met that I refused to ever have children. I don't like children, I don't want children, I won't have children. Being married doesn't change that at all.

My husband and I were DINKs for 15 years.... only by choice for 5 of them. I happiest day ever was the birth of our son.

Before, I really planned to get married at the age of 26. For me to set everything in the right position. Graduate in college, pass the licensing exam and get a stable job. I guess that's not my destiny. I got married at the age of 23 and just this year. After a 3 year long distance relationship, I decided to marry my hubby and don't want to let him go anymore. I did a right decision. Besides I have done the things I wanted to. Graduated, pass the licensing exam and now I have a distressful job with great salary. I never thought I could have that in my age. The plus is I am helping my family in terms of financial.

I might consider getting married if the right person cames along, but I dont worry about marriage if its meant to happen it will happen, but I would love to have companionship and love someday and if I have kids I would prefer to be married but I think the most important thing is for children to have 2 parents that are involved in there life and care for them. and I think marriage can be grate but I also think that not everyone is suited for marriage, and thats ok as long as a person still has love and trust and happiness thats what matters most.

You know marriage for every person has their time. I think your aunt's and uncle's did not found yet the person they are looking for. Or they choose to be single for the rest of their life were in we call them as choosing the vocation to become single blessedness. Why not ask them if someday they dream to become married in the future or to remain as singles.

Hmmmmm.. I'm 22 yrs rite now,planning to get married after 2 yrs. I feel that's essential,it makes a man and woman complete,atleast that's what I feel. And about kids will give birth to one and adopt one. He he he ;-) Have planned everything,just expecting my guy to come to me riding his horse :-p