Kimari: living goddess

Philippines
October 7, 2008 8:44pm CST
I just recently heard about kimari or the living goddess in Nepal wherein they search for a girl between the age of 2-3, no scars, perfect hair, teeth, eyes and skin and most of all doesn't get scared of the dark. A newly appointed kimari, Matani Shakya, will have to spend her life before she menstruates in complete isolation. I wonder what kind of childhood will she have now that she will live the critical stage of her development being worship by the Hindus and Buddhists. How will she manage after getting out of her title? According to their folklore, whoever marries a former kimari will die young. It's kinda big pressure for the former kimari to live a normal life after being replace, don't you think?
4 responses
• Philippines
8 Oct 08
hi just read the article just now. i guess, they are trying to revive their tradition. i know this will be just brushed off by a lot of people and think that it's kinda crazy to appoint a person as a living goddess and have to be worshipped by other people. let's say, tradition is something complicated to explain. but let's wish the little girl a happy and normal life when she becomes an adolescent. hopefully she develops a sense of belongingness when she goes out to the real world. isolation can leave a person quite different from others.
@relundad (2310)
• United States
8 Oct 08
I read this article earlier today and I have zero understanding for this type of tradition as I am American. This seems so far out to me and especially in 2008. I wish someone her could explain to me the purpose of the tradition and also why would a parent in todays time even in a foreign place opt for their child to live this life. It seems that todays goddess will live a torment life. Maybe someone here can help me understand.
• Philippines
8 Oct 08
hi. i was hoping that someone can explain this too. i have like a lot of comments about it (mostly negating the one i read). am curious if in their religion and tradition, must a living soul be appointed as a goddess? this girl is just a child who is not even given the right to choose for her own. it may be a compliment that the little girl is treated as such, however, why would a parent let her live in isolation no matter how much the regard is. and what's kinda sad is, tradition is tradition. it's hard to bend or change it overnight.
• United States
8 Oct 08
I saw this earlier. I wasn't aware of this tradition and quite frankly it bothers me. I mean, this girl will be isolated during a critical moment of development. She'll be showered and worshipped until she reaches puberty and then will be thrust back home where she will not be considered special anymore. This definitely is a crucial time during her development and I don't think it's good for her. Especially since now she probably will spend the rest of her life alone as I've read that former Kimari's never marry.
• Philippines
8 Oct 08
i guess her life was already plotted by other hands, huh? she will be worshipped and that will be instilled in her mind and psyche. when she goes back to the real world, who will teach her how do detach from that lifestyle? she might even be deemed or hated for being self-centered. and how will she adjust when the foundation of everything is during pre-adolescent stage? and the consolation she gets is mere recognition. first, she will be isolated (detached from life itself). then thrown back to the real world (which is very dangerous for someone who didn't live it). and lastly, will never be permitted to get married. i guess it's a nice world for the little girl, ei. and good news is, same thing will happen to other girls after her. wow. hopefully, parents' love would change the direction of the tradition. (no offense meant. just stating our reactions)
• Philippines
8 Oct 08
Hello! I've read that from Yahoo featured. It's said that she will be worshipped by Hindus and Buddhist as an incarnation of the powerful Hindu Deity Taleju. She will be staying at the temple in complete isolation until the onset of her menstruation will she be allowed to return to her family and a new goddess will be named to replace her. I don't know about their culture and beliefs so I have no idea how she'll manage after getting replaced with a new living goddess. This is a link to the article. http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20081007/ap_on_re_as/as_nepal_living_goddess;_ylt=Akz3BE11AxXdWMiVPRKgVvIazJV4 Happy Mylotting!
@joccylau (85)
• China
8 Oct 08
The whole thing is very inhumane.The little girl's life will be destoryed after being the so-called goddess.She will die alone,what a pity!