Do you ever dream about intimacy with another person other then your BF/GF ?

@elitess (5070)
Ipswich, England
October 8, 2008 2:08am CST
Do you ever dream about intimacy with another person (known or unknown) other then your boyfriend / girlfriend / wife / husband ? It just happened to me, i dreamed that i kissed one of my ex-es and that i was about to ask her if she would like to go to bed with me. It also happens from time to time to dream about kissing or hugging unknown persons to me. How about you ?
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mojcica
@mojcica (1511)
• Slovenia
8 Oct 08
I do, but I never see neither the face neither the act itself. I know whats going on, know who's with me (know its not my bf) but I never see it...I feel whats happening. Am never the observer and the actor at the same time...always only the actor :)
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elitess
@elitess (5070)
• Ipswich, England
8 Oct 08
Ow, i see, this is another point of view that i have not thought about it. In my case sometimes i am just the actor (as you are) but sometimes (rare) i am also an observer in my dreams.
James72
@James72 (26790)
• Australia
15 Oct 08
No I don't at all. I do have an active imagination when it comes to most things but this is not one of those things! I am fortunate to share a wonderful marriage with my wife and we are very compatible on many levels. This is not to say that someone who has these thoughts doesn't have the same though; I am just saying that my own dreams and fantasies exist towards her personally. As for dreams when I sleep, I know I can't control these ones but funnily ebnough I don't remember ANY dreams I have at all!
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jammyt
@jammyt (2818)
• Philippines
8 Oct 08
Sheesh! I thought I was the only one who experienced this! I find it so weird so I didn't tell anyone. I dreamt of kissing my best guy friend --- yet I'm already married! And they know each other. Or I don't even look at my friend in any other way.Weird. I wonder why it happens.
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bjcyrix
@bjcyrix (6901)
• Philippines
14 Oct 08
Dreams are a funny thing right?LOL I have dreamt such things but not that often. My dreams are more in the horror/suspense genre.LOL Whenever I do have those kinds of dreams, they are of unknown individuals. Wouldve been nice if I still remember the details of their faces just to have a look out in real life but unfortunately the moment that I open my eyes the details would be gone.tsk3 Still remember that I havent seen the guy before..so I guess that's that.
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aisaellis22
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
12 Oct 08
Well, i dream one time that Shane Filan of Westlife is my boyfriend but not to the point of very intimate. But i dream about him when we haven't met with my husband yet. Now that I am already married, i can't imagine myself being intimate to someone other than him. happy posting!
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