Biggest Fear???

seeing my child get hurt physically or emotinally and not being able to do anything for my child

That I am going to make some kind of mistake when raising my kids, that's going to mess them up in the future. You hear about kids who had a father or mother leave and then the kid grows up with abandonment issues, or kids who see their dad beat on their mom and they repeat the cycle. That kind of stuff don't go on in my household, but as a parent you question every little thing you do. Am I spending enough time with my children, am I scolded them too much, am I scolding them not enough, and on and on it goes. It would be so much easier if kids popped up with instruction manuels :)

My biggest fear was not being enough. not pretty enough not smart enough not patient enough