In love, does age really matters?

@jhenn22 (1242)
Philippines
October 8, 2008 9:20am CST
Does love really matters or it doesn't matter? Is it okay to have a relationship to an older man / woman? May i know your ideas my dear mylotters. Hope that you will take time to answer this simple discussion. thank you
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9 responses
@keya2468 (289)
• India
8 Oct 08
yes love can happen with any aged person. in fact may be difference of age is about 20 years. love has no bound of age. even love can happen in old age also. it is a normal thing.
@jhenn22 (1242)
• Philippines
8 Oct 08
have you tried to fall in love with an older man more than 20 years older than you?..
@jhenn22 (1242)
• Philippines
8 Oct 08
she's married? Are they still together while you and her having an affair?..sorry for asking...
@keya2468 (289)
• India
8 Oct 08
no jhenn I never fall in that kind of love. but I have seen such incidents. that's why I told this.
@Margarit (3676)
• Philippines
8 Oct 08
Nowadays especially we see on television, it is a new trend that older man or woman like younger woman or man even if it is two dacades or more age gap, Some say the age doesnt matter for it is only a number. the state of mind is more important than age for some who are very young but their thinking is very mature already, others are old enough but their thinking is like a child. But still for me age matters when it comes to be my partners for life, i prefer older than me but not more than 5 years so that we can grow old together and we dont need much adjustment because of age gap. But still i do respect what ever preferences they like for loving is unconditional and has no limitation.
@jhenn22 (1242)
• Philippines
15 Oct 08
you have your point margarit. Thanks for the comment...happy mylotting
@bbsr13 (4196)
• India
8 Oct 08
Hello,Jhenn! Love is blind and knows no barriers.You can proceed on loving anybody of any age or cast and creed if he/she reciprocates.thanx.
@jhenn22 (1242)
• Philippines
8 Oct 08
i don't think love is blind....lol...anyways, thanks for the comment
@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
13 Oct 08
I don't think it matters. But does it matter to you? That's what's important. And if you don't feel comfortable or wonder what other people think, then might be better to find someone else.
@rama80rl (53)
• India
15 Oct 08
In love, no age limits, no height matter, no religions and no poor---. Love is undefinable. Love is a life
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
13 Oct 08
I don't think love really matters in a relationship. Love has no boundaries, no age limits and no right places. You can fall in love to someone who is more older than you are even half of your age. I prefer to be in love with a man who is older than me because i know he can understand my childish act sometimes. My husband is older than me and I am happy because he loves me so much and took care of me. Even in the morning and I am not in the mood to talk, he used to ask me how I am and ask me why i am grumpy. Another is that, when you are together and if you are really in love, you will not feel that you are younger than him or he is older than you. That is really based on my experience.
@quawertz (777)
• Philippines
10 Oct 08
For me it doesn't. But some people o women wants a guy that is older because they believe that an older guy meets their maturity level of thinking. As for my case, I have dated a more younger one and now I am dating a much more older. It doesn't matter to me because in my conclusion they are both immature and naive like me at times.haha. but I guess if you love no matter what age you will still be in love.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
9 Oct 08
Relationship is making it work out no matter what age is it. It's more on following your heart and what makes you happy. Love is two people who shares feelings and accepting each other for what they are even their faults and mistakes, even their age,it's how deep is your love, and how real is it. Have a nice day!
@argie713 (1809)
• Philippines
10 Oct 08
I don't think age matters in a relationship. Maturity and trust is the thing that really matters. You can get love and affection from people of any age. Being too young or too old doesn't mean you're incapable of loving someone not your age.