My husband is a good man, don't get me wrong

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I have re-read discussions i have started and noticed how i seemed to make my husband appear like a bad guy. He hasn't been spending quality time with me; life here makes me want to go home; i've been sick and utterly helpless, i am tempted to give up on us, etc. - these discussions were true because they were mostly about what i feel. Now i want to make things clearer because i can see clearer now as well. Well, he gets into my nerves. Husbands do, right? Considering our differences. There are lots of things about husbands/men that makes us cringe and just want to leave them. But there are also things that makes us want to love them more, makes us want to stay, makes us smile, etc. I have thought of leaving, for selfish reasons, i admit, but whenever i look into his good side i realize i have more reasons to stay and love him. He may be insensitive sometimes, but he could also be so sweet and caring and loving if i give him the chance to be. But one really great thing about him and it melts my heart everytime i think about it is that he is one great, loving and hands-on father. He loves us so much. Once or twice, i talked about (my plan on) leaving. He cried. He said he could not live without me. Who would not melt in those words? He is a romantic. What about you? What are his qualities that makes you stay and love him more? He may get into your nerves but he could go inside and melt your heart too, right?