Why?

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Maybe I'm just overly competitive or take sports too seriously. But one of the things that bothers me are kids in sports who have no interest being there. I've been complaining about this since my oldest child got into sports when he was about 5 or 6 years old. Well this year my 5 year old is playing soccer for the first time. His team is made up of all 1st and 2nd graders, so the kids are 5, 6, and 7 years old. Most of them aren't the least bit interested in playing soccer. They spend all of practice and the games just messing around. Throwing grass, wrestling, looking around and paying no attention to the game. Every time we're at soccer I tell my son he's there to learn to play soccer, not to mess around with the other kids. I tell him to listen and watch his coach and pay no attention to what the other kids are doing... but the other kids constantly throw grass at him or run up and hit him playfully. The other parents are paying no attention to what their kids are doing, they just allow them to run amuck, and the coach doesn't try very hard to keep them in line. I mean, I understand they're just kids and are still learning the game, and won't be great players, but I still expect them to try their best, they just aren't interested. I have to pay money to get my kid into these sports, I want him to spend that time learning and playing the sport, and all the lessons that come along with it such as sportsmanship and teamwork. I feel like I'm not getting what I paid for. Is it just me? Do these things bother anyone else? How do you handle watching a sports game when half the kids are too busy daydreaming than to play the game?