what would you do..if your partner has a ralation with someone?
By srikool
@srikool (936)
India
October 9, 2008 3:11am CST
hi frendz..all having a great affection with theri partners..in this siuation..if your partner has a relationship with somone..what would you do in that time..i will ask him directly about this..i will try to say about my true love with him..even he cant get me..i will leave him with her wiht my heartly wishes...you too share your ideas..have a nice time
4 responses
@redsponge (557)
• Malaysia
9 Oct 08
If my partner has a relation with someone else, I think I will let go. I do not want to spend my time with someone that does not love me anymore. It is a waste of time. I ask this question to myself from time to time, when I am single, I told myself that I should let go if next time my partner has a relationship with another person. When I start dating out my partner, I asked myself again, am I willing to let go of him if he has a relationship with someone else, and the answer is "yes" because we have not married, we still have lots of choice. When I am married, I asked myself again, how would I do if my husband has a relationship with other person, the answer is divorce. Divorce is not too big deal as the love has gone, marriage has lost its meaning. Now that we have our first child, and you ask this question, my answer is still the same, let go! But, I will try my best to have my baby with me.
@redsponge (557)
• Malaysia
9 Oct 08
no worries, I just share my opinion. However, I am not sure whether I will really do that if it happens. haha
@mercuryman3a (2477)
• India
9 Oct 08
i believe that if yor partner is having a relationship with someone, it is a shortcoming in me. She does not need anyoneif I am giving her what she desires. If i amunable tofulfil her desires, then I shoudl not feel bad if she goes to someone else toget her desires fulfilled. What I cannot do for her, I will tell her frankly and reason it out with her and tell her the reasons why I cannot meet the demands andleave it to her todecide. I will give her all the love i can and if the love is not sufficient,then just too bad. She was not meant for me.
@bbsr13 (4196)
• India
9 Oct 08
Hello,Sri! There is no chance as my love to my wife is more.I never leave her alone to think for anothers love towards her.Had there been any such relationship found at any point of time I would have given her option to quit me and marry her lover and go out of my life.That would be my only option to her.thanx.
@AltheGreat2430 (2716)
• Philippines
9 Oct 08
Hello! If my partner has a relationship with someone else, I'll confront her about it then ask her why? Does she still love me or not? Then after that I'll decide whether to break it up or something else. But, I'd probably break up with her.
