Why do some people had a hard time to ynderstand simple explanation?

Philippines
October 9, 2008 7:01am CST
I just dont really UNDERSTAND why do this person had a hard time understanding a vvery simple explanation. Gosh, it really getting into my nerve. I don't think generation gapr age gap would be a hindrace to both of us. I was really straight forward of telling her that she is not only grabbing my hands , but grabbing my arms as well as my whole system. After that she will say oopps I am so sorry. Again afterwards the same cycle again. Back to basic. It's just a roller coster ride with her. I don't really know why, but if ever she sees a chance of grabbing acertain opportunity she will really grab it no matter she will be hurting and stepping on anyone shoes. She don't really care. What she want is that she will be the star or the most popular one. A lot of people say that she knew that you have to many connection and was so scared to loose you out of site. That even telling lies just to keep me doesn't matter. I don't really know waht to do. In fact, I've even discover too many lies she made and when asked she sacastically gave a big laugh like a demon and say is that all. HAS HA HA!!!
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@SomeCowgirl (32255)
• United States
9 Oct 08
It appears that this person is becoming a leech to you and that you are getting irritated by her actions and reactions to things, it also sounds as if she is a very mean person and that her behavior towards you and others is starting to get out of hand. I think that if I were you I would access whether I wanted to remain friends with her or if I could help her understand that she is becoming an annoyance to everyone because of her actions, reactions and behaviors.
• Philippines
11 Oct 08
Thanx for the advice. In fact I've already told her straight that she is really getting into my nerve. A lot was really surprised when I told her that. No one ever said that to her. And she asked for An apology. Just this morning. And try to patch things up. She is a nice person anyway, the only problem is that she never think first.