Cheating Ways
By caskins
@caskins (689)
United States
October 9, 2008 12:58pm CST
hello my fellow myLotters, here is my story.
I've been in my relationship for about 5 and half years now. we moved here to pa. in 2005 because of hurricane rita. it happened the following year. the friday before mother's day he tells me he was going to a friend's birthday party and should be back by 11 p.m. and guess what time he comes strolling in like nothing happen. Monday at noon. we had one child at that time. eventually i forgave him. and we are still together and we had another child last year. he said he learned his lesson. for his sake i hope he does. have anyone else being cheated on and worked it out? or were you the one that did the cheating?
2 responses
@NuclearRabbit (650)
• United States
9 Oct 08
Did he ever expain why he cheated? There are plenty of reasons why one would cheat some are understanable in a way and most likely a one time thing provided that the reason why they cheated was resolved. In other cases the cheater is just one of those cheating types.
@caskins (689)
• United States
10 Oct 08
hello my fellow myLotter, all he can say is that he was stupid and he had made a mistake. a mistake that almost took his family away. he hasn't done it again and it has been almost 2 and a half years ago. he knows that i've forgiving him, but haven't forgot. it took almost a year to forgive. thank you for responsed. this kinda helps by talking about it to other people.
@Sheepie (3112)
• United States
9 Oct 08
Well, you need to pay a lot of attention to that man. If he does it more than once, I think you can be safe to say he's going to do it again and again. You're worth better than that, and your children are worth better than that. Keep an eye on him! Also, feel free to yell at him about it, he should be immensely sorry and feel terrible about it, otherwise, i would call it a done deal.
@caskins (689)
• United States
10 Oct 08
hello my fellow myLotter, trust i do pay alot of attention to him. it has been 2 and half years since then. I've yelled at him, made him cry. he seemed like he was very sorry and felt like crap about hurting me. i've forgiving him for it so i don't bring it up anymore but it took me about a year to forgive him though. he knows i forgave him and he also knows i haven't forgotten either.
