Heartache is an Odd Kind of Pain? Do you feel the same way as ?

@dorothy09 (1520)
Philippines
October 10, 2008 1:05am CST
Heartache is an odd kind of pain because your not dying.. Your not even sick..but you feel sick.. For all intents and purposes your perfectly fine. Yet Inside, where you heart used to be , Where your hurt so much that you cant breath Cant sleep and you cant stop the tears from falling You may eat too much and you may not eat at all. Non smokers light up, nondrinkers find a bar. A broken heart is the world's great Equalizer because it can bring even the strongest man to his knees. Its a great feeling when you love but I feel I am dying when I am in pain.
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8 responses
@raclie (1732)
• Singapore
10 Oct 08
it is a great speech, something that will let you understand how heartache is like... but by god!! i hope your not experiencing it!!! you can be fine outside, but when you are alone, your sobbing your heart out, so hard that there is no sound, wishing someone will help you but at the same time wishing that people will leave you alone!!! it is really lonely, if you are those who think that no one uunderstands the situation you are in.. it is all very sad... if you are in the situation, talk to someone... you will feel much better... take care ok?
@dorothy09 (1520)
• Philippines
10 Oct 08
Yes I was hurt so much but thank God I am fine right now.. I have forgiven but I cannot still forget... I keep on telling myself right now not to look back on the past because it might just hurt me..
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• Malaysia
10 Oct 08
Yup. It was the most pain you'll ever receive without leaving a scar or bleed yourself. I too had experience this kind of pain. I feel like it's better to be stabbed by hundreds of knives rather than to experience this feeling. We would become someone that we don't even know. We could had done something in order to forget the pain. In other means we are lying to ourselves that we don't have this heartache happening to us. It seems like you ain't got no hope at all. You feel like you don't want to see the sun or don't want to wake up anymore. This is the crucial part to makes you learn that sometimes you can't get what you want. With true friends around you I think it'll heal in time.
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@dorothy09 (1520)
• Philippines
10 Oct 08
Yes time heals and I can even forgive but the thing is I cannot easily forget.. The good relationship was broken already and its hard to trust again... But somehow I know there is a reason for everything and I have to be strong..
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• United States
10 Oct 08
Heartache I think is the worst pain there is, nothing can make it go away but time, sometimes thats a while, there are no medicines for Heartache, just time.
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@samijo719 (1052)
• United States
10 Oct 08
I completely agree. It's odd because to me heartache is the worst pain you can feel because there is nothing anyone or any medicine can do to fix it. There is no cure. The only thing is time that can heal it. And you never know how long it's going to take. It could take weeks,months, years to stop feeling the ache of heartache.
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• India
10 Oct 08
hey.. yes.. i agree with you.. head ache is another form of mosquito like.. if mosquito bites, we are not going to die (but sometimes malaria....)i cant hear the song which it sings near the ear. k.. now i come to the point. the only way, which i use to avoid head ache is, i always used to listen melody musics. while hearing melody musics, all my head ache will fly off.. i suggest you too try the same.
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@dorothy09 (1520)
• Philippines
10 Oct 08
Music also is one way to relieve heartache. But sometimes if you are so hurt you just cant think what to do..and you just want to sleep and cry.. Thanks for response..GODspeed
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@cmela22 (13)
• United States
10 Oct 08
I just had my first experience with heartache this year it has dimmed down abit, but I still feel it. I have only been in love once and right now I don't even feel like the heartache from losing the one you love is something I ever want to go through again. I'm confused about that, maybe when I get over him I will feel different about love, but the hole is still there in my chest and I still feel like I haven't caught my breath yet.
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@cwilson26 (2735)
• United States
11 Oct 08
Oh yes, I know what you mean. I have dealt with heartache and even though I am now married, I still deal with it from time to time. Being married doesn't mean no more heartache or pain because we still have fights and say words that really hurt. Have you had your heart broken recently? So sorry if you have because I know how it feels and still go through it at times. Heartache is one of life's terrible pains and it does make you feel like your heart is literally broken in two and you will never feel happy again. I do hope you feel better soon. :)
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
10 Oct 08
Broken hearted is near insanity and the feeling is sucidal. The intense feelings are beyond description and only those who have undergone a broken heart knows the pain it inflict on the victim. Fate has it that we are destined to meet the one and only person designed to be our soulmate. Do not be alarmed if someone you meet would leave you a broken heart as a person need to kiss many toads before finally meeting their prince charming. Experiencing broking heart makes a better person out of you and that it comes and go with maturity.