ex friends

United States
October 10, 2008 6:40pm CST
isnt it funny how peiople can change? i ha d afreind, me and her were best freinds. we would do everything together,., she would sleep over, we would go to teh movies and other things like that. this was bacjk when i was like 13 or 14. she was a great friend, but what really would irritate me about her was that she wouid lie alot and exagerate the truth tio make herself better than m. she was col and all, soo i didnt mind it so much. it got to the point tho, that sh easked me " doenst your dad have a real job?" just bevause my dad dint make as much. that, i also did not mind, i just blew it off. well... there was oen time when i woudl ccall her, and she just wouldnt answer. it was after she had moved to a different school. after a few months i stopped trying to call her,. turns out what she did was, she found new friends and got in touch with some of our old friends, which were now only her friends and not mine. basically she got some friends of ours to turn on me, becaus eshe always has to be better. so i forgot about her, made new friendas and kept the old ones that were always there for me. i still have dreams about her thiough, which is strange. in the dreams, we always seem to make up, or she asks me for forgivness. i havent tried to call her for real thoiugh. i mean , with friends like that...
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@lilaclady (28236)
• Australia
10 Oct 08
yes you don't need friends like that, I know everyone changes and grows and sometimes people grow in different directions but why can't they be honest about it, I have a couple of friends who do that lie to make themselves look good thing but i let them think they are getting away with it but i am not that stupid...people are funny.
• United States
10 Oct 08
true huh? yea i let people get away with things do, i guess it makes them feel smug.
@jstmarfz (1498)
• United States
11 Oct 08
Hello! this remind me of my ex best friend back in my high school days. I thought she's the great friend that I ever have. She helped me of everything. I was shock one day, she already talked a lot behind my back which I only discovered from our classmates. It is because out of jealousy. She makes story that as if I have abused her as a friend, in her stories I was the one whose a bad person. No one believed her though. You don't deserves a friend like that. Trying to compare them selves to you is not a good friend but just a jealous person who wants to look better in front of other people.
• India
11 Oct 08
If they are friends then how thay will become ex friends.
@jaygee96 (316)
• Philippines
10 Oct 08
I also have one ex-friend and he's a guy. We were very close during our college days but after that, things fall apart. His long distance girlfriend got jealous of me so we end up avoiding each other. I have no contact with him anymore. But I wish him well in his life.