long distance loving

China
October 13, 2008 8:19am CST
In my opinion ,long distance loving is impossible .Lots of people have realized this ,but they still impus in it .There is no way.loving always make people couldn't see the reality. But the long distance loving really make difficulty to each other. When they are in loving ,they need to communicate and know each other ,but long distance have made it more difficult. So,who can have a good idea to perfect the long distance loving?
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• Philippines
14 Oct 08
I agree that long distance relationship is like rowing a boat upstream. But, it is worth the try if the person you are involve with is someone deserving of your time and extra effort. It is sad at times but the key secret to being happy despite the distance is, to be contented with what is available and try to communicate what you truly feel everytime you have the chance. Ponder the moments spent together whenever loneliness strikes. As long as there are plans to be together in the future and there is a valid reason for being apart then give it a shot. After all, true love is enduring and can stand the test of time.
• China
14 Oct 08
true love is enduring and can stand test of time.i like it
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• China
13 Oct 08
yes I have the same feeling ,in fact I am now going on my long distance loving ,I always feel so lonely ,so is she ,we love each other so much ,but we don't know how to manange our love so well ,we need communication ,we need time to stay together.after so many of the time we more or less break up ,i came to know ,maybe the alone time is we need ,so we will love so deep when we are together,i will pray and pray.
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• China
14 Oct 08
your lover lives in another city,maybe it is an unlucky thing.but since you love each other so much ,it is no choice but last it .maybe you could pay out more ,the time to communicate each other,for instance,by internet and mobile phone or even letter.i think if only there was true love,you'll have the best and perfect ending.and of course i will pray for you sincerely.
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@katfish86 (146)
14 Oct 08
I wouldn't say long distance is impossible. It does get hard sometimes, but it's definitely not impossible. My boyfriend and I live three hours apart, and it IS very hard, and there are days where I'm miserable because I miss him so much, but exchange a few text messages throughout the day, and always talk on the phone in the evening. We love each other, and although we don't like the distance, it's not making a negative impact on our relationship. Plus it means we really value the time we do get to spend together!
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• Qatar
13 Oct 08
hi meteor_dancing....Long distance love affair is possible.....Anything in this world is possible. Most people find it totally difficult but it works for other persons. The most important thing is TRUST for each other...Who knows one day u'l surely meet him/her personally...
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