What would your change about yourself?

@samijo719 (1052)
United States
October 13, 2008 12:04pm CST
If you could change only one things about yourself,personality trait wise, what would it be? I would definatly change that I get so hurt so easily! I tend to take alot of things personally when I shouldn't and think people are mad at me when they aren't.
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@navonly (901)
• India
13 Oct 08
Well, a bit of same thing happens with me too. Even I am not able to survive when any of my friend or known person is angry on me, or is hurt due to me. I really get hurt knowing that. But I dont want to change this side of mine, coz I feel that one should be equally punishable if he or she is the reason to hurt others. However, its still not easy for me to make out what I would like to change, in a way I can say that I am happy with whatever God have given me or God have made me. So its a waste of time to question upon God's creation. I'll just keep on thanking God throughout my life rather then just wasting my time thinking of what i need to change in me.
@samijo719 (1052)
• United States
13 Oct 08
Thanks for the response!
@donna22 (1116)
13 Oct 08
I would not get so paranoid about people not liking me. I over analyse things and think that people do not like me.
@samijo719 (1052)
• United States
13 Oct 08
Thanks for responding!
@Reesers (1387)
• United States
13 Oct 08
That's a good one. It's one I need to work on and I think I'm getting better at. I also have trust issues. I know not everyone in this world is bad but a few people in the past have ruined it. I'm very careful about who I let in my life and what I tell them. It could take awhile but eventually I'll open up.
@samijo719 (1052)
• United States
13 Oct 08
I have trust issues also. It's sad people have to ruin those things for people who are actually genuine and just want to know you. Thanks for responding!
@APPCHEM (113)
• Pakistan
13 Oct 08
i don't want to change anything about myself except one thing. i want to be less responsive when someone taunts me. i usually get angry & reply them harshly when something like that happens. i really want to be a little cool to suppress my anger.
@samijo719 (1052)
• United States
13 Oct 08
I definatly get that way sometimes where I get so upset when taunted! Thanks for responding.
• United States
13 Oct 08
I would be more friendly upon initially meeting someone. It takes me a long time to warm up to someone. I think because of that some people see me as an elitist.
@samijo719 (1052)
• United States
13 Oct 08
Thanks for responding!
@Fedas777 (140)
• Ireland
13 Oct 08
I wouldn't change anything about my self. Not that i am a perfect person but if i would change something it won't be a me. Better to leave the way i am.