How does it feel when some one hurts you ?

@sarojInc (570)
India
October 14, 2008 1:34am CST
Many times in our life we think.We think why?why me?Why me always ? It usually happens when we are HURT,DEPRESSED,ANXIOUS,or maybe when we are kept waiting by someone we love / we don't. What is the most common thing/situation when our mind becomes stops working, and the moment become tough to pass by. I had this feeling long back when I was in my college.Something went wrong ,Iwas unable to focus.... and the rest is history. Did you ever had the same feeling ? share !
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@lynettebyc (2416)
• China
14 Oct 08
If this feeling ever comes to me, i gotta say, my mood that must be very very bad. But yeah, it happens. Misfortunes seem never come alone. Actually, in my opinion, ourselves make that emotion happen, if we don't think like this, others won't care about it less. Currently, after a long adjustment, i want to say, it all depends. Some one will hurt me, others can never make me unhappy, because they don't deserve my spoiting my happinesses. Why should i care about the hurt caused by one who doesn't care about me at all, it's a waste of time and feeling. I will just laugh and forget what the idiot thing he's done. Never mind, i just forgive those are not close to me, they are strangers. But for my dear ones, it does hurt, and it may take time sometimes even years to heal.
@sarojInc (570)
• India
14 Oct 08
Yeah You're right but The key to this situation is to TAKE CONTROL . Ioften repeat the followin words " THIS TOO WILL PASS SOON" and it always works
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@sarojInc (570)
• India
14 Oct 08
Yeah You're right but The key to this situation is to TAKE CONTROL . I often repeat the followin words " THIS TOO WILL PASS SOON" and it always works !
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• China
15 Oct 08
Hey, i love this sentence too. THIS TOO WILL PASS SOON Good luck
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14 Oct 08
i only had that done to me about 4 times. Im a 43 year old man and i feel that way now and i know sometimes i bring it on myself. But sometimes i just find fake women that pretend to care and thats the bottom line.
@purna21 (13)
• India
14 Oct 08
Its a bit tough to explain the phenomena butit is sure that the words work
• India
14 Oct 08
It is a very critical issue