does your wife keep on talking?
By shani_raval
@shani_raval (95)
United Arab Emirates
October 14, 2008 6:31am CST
hey guys i have a question..... quite a responsible one...
i just got marrieda few months back... my partner is a wonderful person and i love her company... the only thing that sometime irritates me is she keeps on talkin n talkin n talkin... like the issues to talk abt never ends with her.. she is always on the go... give her anything and i bet she can talk for more than hours to go continusly... what abt you guys? have u ever experienced such a thing? plz share with me how do u get through it?
10 responses
@myhllim (272)
• Malaysia
14 Oct 08
2 situations for me. If she talks about some important stuff, then I need to pay attention and get into a conversation. Else, I'll just let her do most of the talking. From my experience, she will be stop talking if she found out you are not listening or showing low interest. She would be fine as I think she knows what she talked is a trivial things. Good luck to you!
@armada8213 (99)
• China
15 Oct 08
You are very lucky!If I pay attention to the topic ,my wife will angry!I think women just need conversation,she didn't care about talking-point,she is afraid of lonely.
@medney1988 (560)
• United States
15 Oct 08
does your wife work?? because if she doesn't you may want to get her working. for some woman when they are stuck at home all day by themselves they don't have anyone to talk to. and if she's stuck at home with kids then it's even worse.
@abdulwahab468 (384)
• Pakistan
15 Oct 08
yeah, she talks a lot, and i think most wives do it but from the core of my heart, i tell you i enjoy it a lot. i eagerly wait for her to talk to me all those petty things that happened to her in my absence. i love it really.
if she is quiet, i fell dejected too and prompt her to talk to me a lot.
i think (and i can be pretty sure) men like it thats why NATURE has made wives like that.
@princejayevents (1245)
• Philippines
14 Oct 08
Talking with sense is different from nagging. But if she's nagging, that's bad and irritating. If talking with sense, you should moderate her by also sharing stories and talking back... with that, she'll learn to listen
@marshiemallows (1010)
• Philippines
15 Oct 08
i'm a girl and i really think it's normal for her talk endlessly because it has been the nature of most women. well if you really can't stand listening to her then tell her honestly about how you feel. just make sure to do it nicely so it won't start a fight. or you could just try to get used to it. you're gonna be living with her for the rest of your life. i'm pretty much sure you already know she's talkative even before you got married so you can deal with it just well.
@pweety_princess (2012)
• Australia
15 Oct 08
Talking??
Hahaha. What can you expect, women love to talk. :P
@wallney (44)
• China
14 Oct 08
lol, i have not married yet.but my ex-boss has the interest.everytime when we have meeting,he always can speak several hours which only can be done in 20 mins.and in the meeting ,we dont say anything ,or the meeting will last for more time,al least one hour.it seen funny,but it was so painful experience at that time
@sanjana_aslam (4187)
• Malaysia
14 Oct 08
hi shani ,
i am a woman... i love to talk but looking at my husbands disgusted face at times, i rather go to kitchen and cook some thing ...
i just bought an oven to keep myself busy and going to bake cakes and cookies for my office mates ...
Another thing is the day you have a child you will start missing your wife as she will start to give more attention to your child and you will want her to talk to you
cheers
@rainmark (4302)
•
14 Oct 08
Hey i been married too, well im a wifey but i do not talk alot.I just talk when i have important things and really just normal conversation. Im not a talkative or nagger type of wife. I know that some wife makes thier hubby irritated but that's normal. Just talk to your wife to minimize it sometimes coz its irritates you lolz. happy posting.
