can a love that has started just for beauty sustain long ?

India
October 14, 2008 12:49pm CST
i was loving a girl jus for her beauty. later when i found that she was madly in love with me , showin all emotions only to me and great affection , i started to love her back . but my question is can a love that has started just for beauty sustain long ?
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• United States
14 Oct 08
Well, if you have someother connection to her sure. I think it's silly for us to say that looks are not important - it's the animal in us to seek the most attractive partner... however its human to get to know someone and figure out if this person is worthy to stand the test of time. Do you find her captivating mentally? Do you find yourself thinking about her (not her body or anything shallow)... Only you could figure those things out. Me personally no. I want someone to stimulate my mind instead of other things.
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• United States
14 Oct 08
Thanks guapyero! :) I appreciate it.
• India
14 Oct 08
Weren't u successful dude?? It is possible. After all we are humans and we tend to get attracted towards our opposite gender due to some qualities you find in them. Most of the love starts like this. I'll not call this to be love,but when they fall in relationship and get to understand each other and begin to start seeing the real inner beauty it will sustain and be stable. So,relationships that starts just for beauty might also sustain. But relationships that believes that beauty is skin deep go more far and is much stronger and successful Cheers
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@Sheepie (3118)
• United States
15 Oct 08
Well, I am in a situation kind of like this too. A guy claims to absolutely love me, and all he has to support that is that he thinks I'm pretty. He constantly comes to me and hugs me and he's just all over me. He learned my name last Friday. The first time he was me was last month. This dude does not know me! I mean, I do my best to be polite, but I have no idea what his intentions are and he just isn't what I want at all. I know what I want and he just isn't it, not in any way, shape or form! I'm trying to get to know him, to at least hear his case out, but I just don't like what I'm seeing. Just not my type, not even a little! So, a girl doesn't want to be just adored for her looks, but if you have eventually learned to appreciate her for who she is, then you're on the right path. That's what really matters. If you can have good conversations with her, even better. It can last long if you're good for each other. Good luck!
@bamakelly (5193)
• United States
14 Oct 08
This is a good question. I do believe that a lot of times a man can be attracted to a woman and that could start things off. But later on in the relationship you will come to learn more facts about each other underneath all of the beauty. There is more than beauty and handsome looks to a relationship. A good quality partnership can only be sustained through communication and understanding. If you grow to love this person that would be wonderful. There is someone for everyone I believe and I don't think that looks are everything. I wish you well, Albino.