to be or not to be?

India
October 15, 2008 11:49am CST
"to be or not to be.....single"?guys and gals be open because any time in this issue depending on the situation/person you could be at recieving or a giving end! issue:is it ok to lie/fake your relationship status (like saying stuff like "something maybe in the pipeline, the special person's abroad , you like someone and there could be a chance etc etc) in some situations where you are clearly not interested(could be a distant acquintance or some colleague at work showing interest, with some friends always eager to fix a "wrong"match for you etc) ANGEL:"no...,you should be honest about your choice. why should yu lie?you have to be confident and not get affected. its not your problem that you don't see yourself with the person......she/he should take the hints....etc etc" DEVIL:"yep lying can surely jelp deal with an unwanted headache,unnecessary avoidance of people,whole range of awkward situations espevially with those who do not understan even direct cues, and ya can definitely save the other from feeling rejected or you from the guilt" would love to hear people's vies,experiences...
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