Child abuse

October 15, 2008 8:33pm CST
If you knew someone was abusing their children would you report it? Especially if you seen it first hand??????? All suggestions welcomed!
4 responses
• Philippines
16 Oct 08
its depend upon the situation. sometimes we need to be very strictly to our childre to decipline them.
• United States
16 Oct 08
yes there are differences of discipline and abuse though. but when you see someone doing something to a child that makes you feel uncomfortable and the first thought is "that's not right" ... chances are it's abuse.
16 Oct 08
I'm sorry lunelden, I know the difference between discipline and abuse. Thanks for you comment.
16 Oct 08
You are very right ndaniel.
• United States
16 Oct 08
ABSOULTELY! there are so many options if you want to remain anonymous. In my state there is a 24 hour hotline for Child Protective services. My daughter's half siblings have been abuse plenty of times... I have reported it. That's why my daughter doesn't know her father and grandfather. Grandpa is in prison and dad can only see 2 of his 5 kids. You can call the cop anonyomusly as well. You never know what that person is capable of doing. You may save that child's life.
16 Oct 08
I'm proud of you and I don't even know you. You are very strong to stand up for your daughter. There needs to be more mothers out there like you. There is nothing worst that a child being abused. Some people aren't meant to have kids. It's especially hard when a partner turns a blind eye to it. It really makes you wonder what makes people tick. I hope your daughter is happy and healthy. She should be proud to have a mom like you.
• United States
16 Oct 08
you don't even know how much that comment touched me. Thank you so much ... I'm a bit teary lol. I'm a bit speechless. But I just did what I felt right. And for someone who feels uneasy calling the police or child protective services ... nothing is set in stone. An investigation will be made and if evidence proves wrong - it's like it never happened. Better to be safe than sorry.
@dodo19 (47113)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
12 Nov 08
Here, in Canada, by law, we have to, with the exception of lawyers, under the Criminal Code. If my next door neighbor was beating their children, then yes, I would report it, without any doubt.
• United States
16 Oct 08
If something in my stomach didn't feel right, you bet I would report it. There's a difference between discipline and abuse. If I see someone doing it, even if it's in public, i'm calling CPS or the police. A child doesn't know the difference if it was raised like that, and it may seem even normal to them, but they deserve to be rescued from that situation. When I had next door neighbors, you can hear them yelling at the child and the child YELLING- not crying. You bet I called the Child Protective Services. I remained anonymous- since they were the kind of people that would retaliate. So, the CPS came over and investigated. Come to find out, he was abused and he had bruised all over his body- and he was only 1 year old. They took the child away and the parents were sent to jail. I saw the little boy a few months ago, and he is now in therapy, but he is happy once again since he's living with his aunt. His aunt has full custody.