What would be your reaction if you found out that your bestfreind betray on you?

Philippines
October 15, 2008 11:16pm CST
you've been friends for a long time and in fact you become best of friends together. you share secrets..hang out together and make the best out of everything...but one day...you learned that he/she is stubbing back at you...and in fact he/she is destroying your image to anybody...how would you deal with that?
7 responses
@SketcherD (1114)
• Canada
16 Oct 08
Hm sounds familiar to me. What I did is distance myself and if I did talk to the person again I told them nothing I would not tell others myself. In other words nothing confidential just general things that anyone could find out about and they wouldn't care.
• Philippines
16 Oct 08
hmmm..how about if she/he tell to your friends already, then your friends did not care, talk to you anymore because of what your best done. your best friend is really destroying your image. Then you cannot found nor locate your best friend..what will be your reaction.
@SketcherD (1114)
• Canada
16 Oct 08
Then I would take one person at a time and try to explain things properly to them or straighten things out with each one individually. If these friends can not be reasoned with then they are not good friends to start with and it is time to look for new ones!! Step out of your comfort zone and look for a new lot that has more integrity. You don't need that kind of strife in your life.
• Philippines
17 Oct 08
I really love your reaction, maybe if all person are the same of you, the world is so beautiful.
@donn_juan (325)
• Philippines
16 Oct 08
first thing i would do is ask her if what i learned is true.. you see there's a big difference between just hearing it from someone else and overhearing it yourself that your best friend is backstabbing you.. if you yourself witnessed the backstabbing, then you better stop treating her a friend. he/she was never a friend to you so why would you be one to him/her? move on..you'll meet more people along the way. one of them could be your true best friend..;o)
• Philippines
17 Oct 08
Yeah, your right there are lots of people wants to be our friends. but to find a true friend is not that easy.. You should see the whole personality of that person, anyway the best way to do is to move on and enjoy life..right?
• Philippines
17 Oct 08
yeah your right, but to find a true friend to not that easy, you should see the whole personality of that person, anyway the best way to do is to move on and enjoy life, right?
• Philippines
17 Oct 08
well he/she should hide in the abyss and never her/his face again or else i might break every bone in his body.
• Philippines
20 Oct 08
wow..im afraid if your got angry..im scared..but anyway we have our own decision with regards to the people that we trust and betray on us in response, They are not good friends and cannot be trusted anymore and maybe you just face them once and talk to him or her rather than escaping and hide.
@earnnings (1296)
• India
17 Oct 08
then ignore and dont care about that and cut if down
• Philippines
22 Oct 08
well, its your own idea..but i think in ignoring is not the best solution, talk to him and ask why he do like that..Because when you dont react about what he/she told you, it means you dont care and maybe she/he is correct..right?
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
17 Oct 08
Well if that happens to me I think I'll see my best friend and really talk to her but first I will gather all the evidences what his doing yto me at my back. So he won't deny it. I'll ask him what is his problem doing that to me, where did I go wrong by hurting me. I just need a good reason, and I want a real honest answer if he tells me his envious of me well I can believe it. But after that talk maybe I will not be close to him anymore, cause I don't want more pains and hurts. Good morning!
• Philippines
17 Oct 08
wow..i love your idea, maybe that's the thing i do in the first place so that i wont be hurt so much, you know what its so painful to hear all those hurts talks about me, I will do your idea..Its nice..Thanks..
@besthope44 (12141)
• India
18 Jul 10
Forgive and accept her for what they are ...
• India
30 Oct 08
well, if it happens with me then I would talk to her personally and will ask her whether she did so because I wont like to lose a good friend just because of some misunderstanding and if she agrees that she did that then I will ask her to give atleast one reason for her such action and if that misunderstanding can be cleared then it is good otherwise it would be better to break the relationship because its better to be a enemy or stranger rather than having a bad friend