Problem sticking to your diet?
By ahgong
@ahgong (10064)
Singapore
October 16, 2008 1:19am CST
Well, with any diet to lose weight, we are all faced with restrictions.
Avoiding some food and making extra effort to exercise, it is a life long thing that we have to do.
The reason many diets fail is not because the diet is lousy. The problem lies with the person under going the diet. They lack the discipline to stick to it for the long run. When I say long run, I mean, for the rest of your life.
To lose weight is easy. Any one can lose weight. Just fast for a few days to a week and you can see weight being lost. The trick to a successful diet is to keep those pounds off after you have lost it.
And that requires a change in lifestyle, not just for a month or two. But for the rest of your lifes.
Yeah... who ever said losing weight was easy?
One way to make a diet plan sustainable, as I have found out, is to make it not so restrictive. Eating right and exercising go hand in hand. People who eat well feel better and exercise better — and vice versa.
A delicious eating plan made up of fiber-rich, nutrient-dense foods, like poultry, fish, lean red meats, and fruits and vegetables, as well as beans and whole grains.
That is why the first part of any diet, is education.
Education of what you put into your mouth is very important. A diet does not mean boring tasteless food.
All you need to do is make some changes to your everyday consumed item and you can see and feel the difference within a month or two.
Take for example, instead of reaching for that lump of sugar for your coffee or tea, try going for honey instead.
Instead of that big glob of mash potatoes, try going for a clob of corn.
Little things like that make a whole lot of difference in the number of calories that you take in.
Once you know how each kind of food works, then you will know exactly what to use as a substitute. You will still be able to enjoy your favorite dishes with a healthier choice of ingredients.
Then comes the all difficult word... DISCIPLINE.
One of the main reasons why many people fail in their diet, is because they jump straight into abstaining everything and anything they eat.
Imagine, used to having a large and hearty portion of pasta for dinner, now, on the diet, you are reduced to two slices of lettuce and a stick of carrot. Not very appetitising, rite?
So, rather than jump right into a diet, try reducing the portions of your food first.
Start with a 10% reduction then gradually work towards halfing it within the duration of half a year to a year, which ever time you are more comfortable.
At the same time, substituting the ingredients with healthier choices.
Just these two alone, I managed to lose 5 KG in the period of one year. Coupled with exercise, I managed to lose another 6 in the following year.
Then come maintenance. After losing all that weight, you have to maintain it that way. If not, the pounds will just creep back in and put all that effort of losing them to waste. Something that I cannot really comment on as of now as I have not found the way to maintain the weight loss. Over the last 7 years, I put back almost what ever I lost in the two years that I stuck to the diet and lifestyle change.
Will update again when I manage to keep it off for good. NOW is back to square one for me.
Hmm... should I keep a diet diary? I wonder...
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3 responses
@marababe (2503)
• Philippines
16 Oct 08
Hi ahgong!
This is a very nice post you have! Thanks for sharing this information. I am currently trying to go on a diet and I agree with you regarding the reduction of food intake instead of totally crossing it out on your menu. It is more healthy that way and at the same time your body would only adjust little by little. I don't think it's good to "shock" your body by holding back on carbohydrates, protein, and even sugar. They all play vital parts in our system for us to be able to function well and all it takes is the knowledge on how much we really need per day PLUS getting regular exercise.
@ahgong (10064)
• Singapore
28 Oct 08
Yep, a gradual decrease in the food intake is the way to go. Coupled with some exercise everyday. And of course, peppered with a generous dose of discipline!
We need lots of that to stick to a diet!
It is especially tough to stick to a diet without discipline. And a lot of determination is required to gather that discipline to want to stick to the diet.
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
17 Oct 08
lol =D YEah, very truth in what u have just said.. Losing weight is easy, but maintaining it there is not easy at all.. BEcause once we see results and satisfied with it, we tend to 'reward' ourselves with all those foods that we have been cutting back for the past months or yr.. Thus, once we start eating that again, it becomes uncontrollable, as we are thinking, just abit once in a while wont do us much harm..
But too bad, the little bit once in a while will start to become more regular, till we dun even realise it.. By then it's too late.. SO besides discipline, self control is equally important too ^_^ Lossing weight and staying healthy is for life, in order to make sure one stick to their plans, they will have to remember this, "whatever they eat now, they have to work doubly hard in order to loss them off. SO if one doesn't wanna work as hard, then they can only resist the temptation."
This is what i always tell my frenz during my army days and i was an IC.. That works for them for the initial 3 months, but after that, they are free to eat what they wanted and now, they ballooned twice the size of what they used to be.. lol
So if one really wanna lose weight, and maintain it there, drink more water ^_^ It helps ^_^
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@ahgong (10064)
• Singapore
28 Oct 08
Drinking lots of water can only help to some extend. Once the water is digested, which is pretty quick, one will feel hungry again.
The way to add bulk to your meals without increasing the calories is to eat lots of fiber rich foods. Then after losing the desired weight, the life long maintenance kicks in.
Not that we have to totally abstain from our favorite foods forever, we have to know when to say no to them. Instead of eating them everyday or all the time, we should moderate it to maybe once a month? Or work on a reward system where you must justify a good reason to eat it.
For example, if I target to lose two kilograms, I can afford to eat one bowl of ice cream at the end of it. Then I will have to work on the next goal before I can justify another reward.
Then also, being selective on which favorite foods to eat is also key to maintaining the weight loss. No point out eat less of ice cream, but eat more of doughnuts. Negates the effects of the abstinence.
I guess it all boils down to what we put in our mouths and how we burn the food we eat.
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@aseretdd (13729)
• Philippines
17 Oct 08
In the past... my problem was how to gain weight rather than to lose it... the super skinny is not really and in thing here in my country... since a lot of people would think that i don't have money to buy food... but i tried everything... but i still did not gain any weight...
I only did when i got pregnant... and immediately lot all of that when i gave birth to my daughter... so i do not know if i am lucky or if i am cursed never to gain weight in this lifetime...
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