How does friendships blossom

India
October 16, 2008 4:08am CST
We come across many people daily. not all becomes friends. just a handful becomes firends. how does that happen. what is the mystery behind it. what drives people to friendship.
8 responses
@srikool (936)
• India
17 Oct 08
yes we are crossing many people..but few only become our firends..when our character match with others they may become our friends..they should be a loveable one to us..if i am a smuggler i will prepare a person like me..if i am a good girl i will prepar a person like that..i think like this..have a nice time
• Philippines
17 Oct 08
what drives people to friendship is that both parties trust each other the first time their roads met. That's the best thing friendship could ever offer...trust. Another second thing is the respect you can gain from friends. it's an overwhelming feeling when you know your friends are the best people who respects you for who you are and trust you for your capabilities.
@sunkissed (4330)
• United States
16 Oct 08
Yes we do come in contact with a lot of people each and every day. But all of these people do not become our friends. In order to have a friend, we must first be a friend.Being friends is like a relationship, we must work on it, we get to know this person, we have to have things in common with them, want the same things out of life.Spend time with them.trust them.We open up to them.
• Malaysia
16 Oct 08
It's just happen and there no answer on how was it blossom. Even when two people met in the wrong side of the foot they can be as best friends forever. It's so subjective. We need someone to talk to,share our stories,dream,secret,anger and what ever emotion and from that we learn to appreciate each other as a friend.
@laxram (181)
• India
16 Oct 08
everyone can't understand a person only few people's can understand a person, those people are friends
@srsddn (98)
• India
16 Oct 08
There cannot be a universal formula for friendship. It varies from stage to stage in our lives. Motives behind friendship at School, College level may be altogether different than that of professional level or towards retired life. But still there is some common waivelength which works at each of these stages. Perhaps,it could be understanding the needs of others at these stages and accomodating or fullfilling some of these. However, friendship at the younger age,say childhood or school time is normally much more stronger and durable. As one becomes mature there could be even selfish or situational motives which bring people together for a common cause. But such friendships may not be lasting.
@samson1967 (7414)
• India
16 Oct 08
Common thinking and similar tastes are the two factors that binds friends.
• Sri Lanka
16 Oct 08
S many of things