"I have this Situation and I do not Know what I have to do with my Brother"
By iyah10
@iyah10 (4115)
Kuwait
October 16, 2008 2:01pm CST
I have this situation that I really need some of your advice because this is what happened for me and my Brother that I am really confused on what are the things that I have to do: I sold my old Car from that company and I want to bought a new Car in which my Brother told that I do not have to bought or make new credit so that I could save and I do give the money that I sold to him as a partial payment for the used car of my Brother because I still do not want to make credit from the Bank for another salary deductions that would go through with an interest and after 2 months of using the car my Brother told me to bring the Car in the Shop for it needs a overhauling and when the Shop asked for a payment of 1,200KD and my Brother told me that I need to pay for it even without telling me that i have to pay unto it and from last night I open this to my wife and she told me to borrow a money and take a new car from the company and she told me to forget the car that I already give us a partial payment because she told me to forget it so that I would have a peace of mind.... Do u think my wife is right unto this matter... Please need your advice badly unto this part...///??????
2 responses
@taripres (1499)
• United States
23 Oct 08
Your situation is, you have another party involved, your wife! I had a sort of similar situation with my brother! I cosigned on a note for him for a car, then he couldn't pay. I did a take over payment with someone who took off in the car and the bank put it on my credit! The car was found, I got it out of the pound and spent about $3000 total, then the bank came and got it! My brother lives with me now, still a mooch!
My thing is, I don't ask him for anything! No more cosigns, I just want him to save his money, where ever that's coming from, and get his own place and his own everything! It's enough now, I'm done, I love my lil brother, but I can still love him in his own place! It's a loss I don't plan on making again!!
Taripre$
@iyah10 (4115)
• Kuwait
23 Oct 08
My agreement with my Brother is between the two of us only but when he do something wrong with me and to the Car that we both agree is that I open the subject to my wife and she told me to forget the way my Brother has done to me for he is still my Brother with my wife who give me this advice although my heart is still on pain why he do such things for me but I do forget it God has planned and just yesterday i bought a new Car from the Company and it is "Jeep"I take a loan in the bank in which I do not like to do it but I do not have any other choice, i cannot stay without it for I am taking the children to School everyday.....
@hiabhi4012 (60)
• India
1 Jan 09
I think that you should make as simple as possible with your brother .
whatever you think please share it firstly .As your brother is the most lovable persion in the world so please please dont intimitate a bursty thing thing with him.



