i am getting married, but i am getting worried.

@airl1527 (355)
China
October 17, 2008 4:55am CST
I treat marriage the most important to me as a woman. I am getting married to a man who loves me very much and i have treated me as my husband. But at the same time, i am getting more worried, too, because i fear whether he will stop loving me when he meets other young women when i am old. You know, i am three years older than him. A man ages slower than a woman. isn't it?
2 responses
mjmlagat
@mjmlagat (3170)
• Philippines
17 Oct 08
Congratulations and good luck! You don't have to worry for as long as you both know each other well and you have spent much time together, it will be okay. What you're experiencing is just normal.
airl1527
@airl1527 (355)
• China
17 Oct 08
Thank you, my friend. sometime, i know him very well but i think sometimes he doesn't know very well. When i ask him what i like and don't like, he just answers, "I don't know much about that, i just love you." When you hear this, what will you think?
mjmlagat
@mjmlagat (3170)
• Philippines
18 Oct 08
okay, that's quite interesting. All I know, if you love someone you must know what she likes and what she doesn't. BUt anyway,relax my my friend, maybe he's just scared himself.
dragon54u
@dragon54u (31636)
• United States
26 Oct 08
I can't give you any advice, since I lost my husband to divorce. He ditched me for his high school girlfriend. But I know of marriages that have lasted, no matter the age difference. Those couples always thought of each other first, surprised each other when it was least expected with a kiss, a note, a little present--they don't take each other for granted. I would guess that you need to always make him feel you love him and keep him hungry for more of you. Not only physically but emotionally. Always leave a little something of mystery about you, yet give him all your love.