What are the signs of cheating spouse???

Philippines
October 17, 2008 5:23am CST
My friend is crying over the phone telling me there is something wrong with her husband. The behavior of her husband had changed. Sometimes she noticed unusual habits in a way his spouse communicates, whispered phone calls, deleted caller-id records and deleted emails. And lately she noticed that her husband suddenly pay more attention to his appearance and grooming. My friend keep on asking me if all of these are possible signs that her husband is cheating on her. I can't give her false answer that would ruin their marriage. Do you have any knowledge on this my lotters? Need your opinion..
3 responses
@mrcluv81 (14)
• United States
23 Oct 08
yes thsoe are the classic signs of someone who ois cheating .. deleting text call logs emails ect. thats shows that they are talking to some one that they dont want you to know about . and the self grooming yes that is another highlighting their hair new cloths new appearence new person. and yes i wud tell your friend all this info be honest it will all come out in the wash...
• Philippines
23 Oct 08
Thanks for your suggestion mrcluv81, I will tell my friend about my point of views and help her to face the reality.. Have a nice day.
• United States
23 Oct 08
Everything that you mentioned are signs of cheating. If a husband can't talk to a person on the phone in front if his wife or partner, then he is up to no good. Another sign is if he gets into fights, leaves the house for en extended period of time and then comes back as though nothing has happened. If your friend feels it in her gut, it is probably true. She is just scared and does not know what to do.
• Philippines
23 Oct 08
I can sense it too, that my friend is scared to know the truth and maybe not yet prepared to accept the reality.. Thanks for your opinion trich1963..Have a nice day!
@telfrigi (17)
• Philippines
19 Oct 08
i can't comment on this since im still single :-) but in every situation God has plans and purposes... maybe seeing your husband's unusual behaviour means something whether its good or bad, its only him who you can rely upon.. so pray to him to guide you and enlighten you... hmmmm what if your (friend)husband's behavior is just his way to make you notice him.. Girl, why dont you change your appearance too... make him drool over you just like the time when he first courted you :-) Goodluck!