Insulting love.......

@y2krimi (134)
October 17, 2008 10:41am CST
If your partner repeatedly insults you very badly,then what should be done???? break the relation or forgive and forget????
5 responses
@deserve40 (1642)
• India
17 Oct 08
If your partner repeatedly insults you then you need to check you why is he or she doing so. If he is doing it intentionly, then you should tell him or her that you feel insulted and you will not tolerate this type of behaviour. If he or she is doing just in light mood you should make it clear that you do not like such things and if such things are repeated in future you will have to break away. But I feel that you must give atleast one chance to your partner to change and if after that also she or he is insulting you then you should break away because nothing is so good as your self respect.
@dheal888 (283)
• Indonesia
17 Oct 08
Forgive but give attention with advice that's wrong for you also for your friend. However, insults isn't good for us.
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
17 Oct 08
I don't think so I can just pass it way just like that. No can is perfect or right were just human any person can tell me what is wrong or what is the problem in a suttle way. Anyone doesn't have any right to insult anyone cause that person is not perfect also. If that happens to me I'll ask him what is your problem. Life is so simple and being insulted your self esteem goes down also, it's not gonna be healthy at anyones part.Don't he makes mistakes also? Doesn't he or she been insulted by anyone? If that person cares or love me, or even just a friend I don't deserve to be treated that way. I'll just give him a dose of his medicine or I'll ask him are you happy treating me this way. Good night!
• India
17 Oct 08
It always depends on what circumstances hes insulting you repeatedly. If at all he is insulting you when you are alone and by doing that may be he is asking you to change yourself in that particular matter. If at all he is repeatedly doing it in front of others then you have to think about the relation. Or else sometimes guys pull our legs by insulting us. May be they are doing it for fun. So if u really love that person just think once again before u take any decision or else you forgive and forget...
@kedves (728)
17 Oct 08
first i think you need to find out why they treat you this way. if it is just because they are a bully and use it to control you then run like hell and don't look back. if it is because they are suffering with problems and stress and their only way to relieve the strain is to shout then you need to find out what the problem is and help them before it is too late and your relationship is ruined. no one should live in a relationship where they are abused verbally or physically so find the reason and help sort it or leave just do not ignore it.