why are some guys just messed up??

United States
October 17, 2008 7:25pm CST
so today was a pretty good day, niothing bad happened untill a little while ago. one of my friends from work called in to let us know the reason she wasnt going to come in was because her bf, well now former boyfriend, beat the crap out of her. now im not sure of teh situatiomn, all i know as of now is that she went back home because she forgot something an dhe was in her apartment, supposedly looking for his phone an dthat he then started hitting her, not sure why. whey doesnt really matter though i mean ive seeen him hes almost 6 feet tall ansd shes 5;0 and really petite, so why would he even do that? i mean hes alwatys cheate don her and shes always taken him back, also shes the mother of his 8 month old twin boys that hes so proud ofhes not paying rent hes just mooching off her at her apartmen.. i mean the guy has everything that he could possible want and isnt doing jack, and he hits her? what is it that makes guys hit women? i mean, what goes through their head?she never did anytjing but try to please him, so he thanks her by punching her in the face. the good thing is, theis girls not dumb. she called us from the police station =) we dont really know what going to happen to the guy yet though. of course, after he beat her he ran like the coward that he is.
4 responses
@ganda8831 (816)
• Philippines
18 Oct 08
They say that men who physically abuse their girlfriends and wives have been abused themselves when they were children. I also have a friend who got beaten up by her ex boyfriend. It's a good thing that they are no longer together because they could have killed each other if it went on. Guys like these are losers and are worthless. I dont even know why some women tolerate getting beaten up. If it happens to me even for just one time, i'll get him out of my life and have him arrested.
@Shar1979 (2722)
• United States
18 Oct 08
i feel so sorry for your friend but in her situation...she really love him to the point of just ignoring the pain he caused her. i hope one day she'll come to her senses and ditch him. she deserve someone else better than him
@yuna15 (2706)
• Philippines
18 Oct 08
Just like you said the guy is a big loser and coward. The guy has a big problem up in his head. He should see a doctor or... maybe not. He should go straight to jail because of what he did to your friend. It's good that their not together anymore.
@Lazers (152)
18 Oct 08
The guy deserves to be arrested, and charged with assualt. Beating a girl who is obviously kind and considerate, and basically has provided for you, is wrong. Beating anyone is wrong. I feel bad about the twins though. They may grow up without knowing their real father, thanks to this selfish man. I wish you and your friend the best of luck!