Will it be "yes" or will it be "i'm sorry" ?

i think it would be yes, inspite of the looks, anyway im not after with the looks im more on the personality, and maybe i should have known ans seen his pics already before meeting up, and as long as he is nice to me and repectful that would just be fine with me!!!

That's the reason why I don't engage myself in online relationships. I don't want to have regrets and risk having a relationship I am not sure of what to feel when I meet him in person. Falling in love being apart is different from relationships where you see each in other person. Yes good looks isn't that important but still, you wouldn't know the real feeling once you see the person face to face. Ciao!

Hi Modstar... Well, if I were still single and that was the case, I would still say yes regardless of the looks. If I fell in love with the person and he had the qualities that I look for in a guy, then it wouldn't be a big thing. I'm not a person who is particular with the looks... I still go for the personality of a person.

i never really have any particular preference when it comes to looks. i usually settle for me whom i know would take care of me and will love me unconditionally (as if!). i dont really engage in online dating because like you said, its very risky plus the fact that i already found the guy who loves me unconditionally. if ever there were men / boys who's trying to show or let his feelings known, i would tell them right away that im engaged! :)

ok, for starters, i would not be meeting anybody i thought of as a 'boyfriend' without first seeing an image (hopefully a true pick of himself/herself) If he were not attractive, i would not be a total biatch to him, however, i would be offering a drink rather than offering myself;) on the flip side...i really dont think the internet is the right place to try to find 'love' stats show that only 24% YUP 24% of internet relationships work out once the people meet. Its a fantasy land on teh web, you never know if the person is full of crap or not, i would sooner meet someone from my local area where ateast i can find out from other people if he is a buttnut or a good person. thats just my 2 cents though..i know there are people out there who try to find love on the web..i am just not one of them, and i encourage people i know not to 'look for love in all teh wrong places'

what would you feel or say or do, when you see someone, whom u thought to be cute in the internet , turned out not to be as cute as you thought she were? Lol!

I'm giving the guy a try, so it will be a yes I guess. Maybe he's got more to offer than his looks. Who knows? I would love to discover about him in person, if I won't like what I see then, then it's gonna be "I'm sorry".

In my case it must be a girlfriend as I am a straight guy. For me I would love to see the image of my gf on internet itself so that I don't get shocked when we meet for the first time. In any case, I don't belive in Cyber love.

I would not make any difference to me what he looked like because looks would not have anything to do with what I thought of him. Since I would already know him I would not care that he might look exactly what I thought he did.

Hahahaha this is the funny moment i had in the past. Once it happen when I am in the 2nd semester in college. The internet was very popular thing around my campus, so sometimes i skip my class just to chat with someone on the internet, when we(me and him) manage to meet on the mall, that time i am not wearing the clothes that we agree before (naughty me) . And when i saw him that is far away beyond my expectation's, i message him that i cannot meet him and i go home (poor guy), after that we never chat again. So my conclusion is I'm sorry. LOL

I make it a point to warn them about how ugly I am in advance

simple, you just be nice for that moment you are with them and after they're gone you delete everything about them if you didn't like them. I once met someone on the net, a lady, and she always sent me photos with sunglass on and she looked pretty beautiful with her sunglass on, but when i mey her i realised that she only had one eye.At first i thought maybe i was dreaming,ha!ha!ha After she left i had to laugh and not just any laugh but Laugh Out Loud, i never phoned her since then and she never phoned either

Forgive me but I'm really a very bad girl when we talk about meeting personally your friend on the net or text mate.I always have this feeling about how people will look like and every time I'm right.I always say the opposite of what I look and wear then I'll seek my blind date.LOL!If my hunch about his looks are right....soorrryyy I'm on the road again.I did this twice and I never want to do this again.It's not easy to hurt others feelings just because they don't fit your qualifications.

Does physical appearance matters in love, be it in physical or virtual world? Not for me though. Think what draws you to him or her in the first instance. I am drawn to people who has the intelligence and has strong character. He should be able to strike good conversations with me. He should have great humor too. Physical looks is a secondary matter. A good look is a public property and would only stir my jealous heart.

that's a blind date, so if you make some decision to do it, then you have to do it no matter if he/she is uglier than the photo's ... i think, that's why they called it a 'blind' date

Lucky for me I don't really commit with something I don't really know about...

For me, more than looks and how they present themselves (cos good manners fade after the first meet in any case), it is about chemistry between us. If the chemistry we shared online is too obvious in real too, I'd give it a go and date the guy for a while. But is there any good if he returns to his city or country after the meet? We go back to IMs and phones? No fun in that huh? Also, I have made guys buy a webcam just for me, and even given them online tutorials on how to instal it cos I just must see whether they are the same as their photos or they've aged.. haha. But on a broader perspective, nope. I wouldn't go the whole hog purely based on online interaction. Reason being: nine times out of ten, according to global statistics (okay, I made that up), such relationships end then and there and nobody stays in touch. The novelty is lost after the meet. And if you had the bad fortune of spending more than two hours with the person, there would be eye-opening revelations! Much rather avoided than anticipated.

well it depends you, if we will finally meet and still he would be the type of guy i thought he would be, even if his ugly or whatever i still first see what my feelings would be? if its yes or im sorry... and whatever it would be i would go straight to the point as not to prolong the agony or happiness...

i would say im sorry.. i know it's too bad from me to say. but what can i do if i don't find him pleasant or "handsome" enough. im not that pretty to be so rude, but of course all of us have standards especially when it comes to looks. but i can't fool my self. if i just let it, then in the end i know i will also hurt him.. so better tell it straight. i don't know if there's a nice way to say, coz for sure even to me, if someone says that they like what i look like, its very hurtful... lolz.. but if love really comes along the way on the chatting processing, well i think looks won't be an issue at all for me....