I would like you to help me with my responses

Hi Violetdreams, yes in fact this does help a lot. We are all very busy people, I hope your expansion of the business is going well, it is not for me but did look into it. I forgot to mention that another of my businesses I had was a speedating agency and that was hilarious, I even met a guy myself through it and we dated for about four months but I had a partner and she bless loved he solcialising bit but was prepared to do all the groundwork which was left to me and not that finacially viable even though on a good night we made £400 plus and I negotiated free venues as we were bringing people into their establishments. Huggles. Ellie :D

;giggles; it did the trick to keep me beter organized and not have my email jammed everyday

awww dawg.. ya didnt talk to me for ages.. the constant reminder of being ignored was just toooo much to bear!! ;cries;

Ouch!

Hi Kaleegirl, It isn't my responses from my discussions I always make sure I answer each individually how ever long it takes but the new discussions from friends for me to answer, there are so many and I don't like to neglect anyone but some do start an amazing amount of discussions in a day and I just can't get round to them all. Huggles. Ellie :D

Hi P1kef1sh, 951 and my inbox only holds a 1000 and I have already had to delete a lot to make space which is why I need to work out a fair system. I will answer yours darling, you were one of my very first friends here and there is no way I would intentially neglect any of your discussions. So it will be yours for today as first response too. Huggles. Ellie :D

That is a lot! Does that mean that I have to post a discussion now? Oh blimey......... LOL. XX

This is proving harder than I thought as I have just been into your discussions started and now I can't remember whether I have answered them or not and you have so many responses to go through. I think I may have to come up with a different method eh! Will try my best to work through though LOL. Huggles. Ellie :D

ellie dont feel bad,we all understand, we all get in time crunches and I also, am packing part time and mylotting as much as possible too. I get so caught up in resp;onding to my friends that I sometimes forget to reply to responses on my own discussions. I think we all sort of give our friends leeway too as we all get busy most days.

Hi Hatley, So pleased you understand, but being busy with the packing for the move I guess you are busy yourself so can really relate to not being able to respond quite so quickly to discussions. Hope things are going well. Huggles. Ellie :D

Hi Humbug, my problem is the spacec in the inbox, it can only hold a 1000 and it is 921 at this present moment and I can't work my way through them quick enough to respond. No doubt it will all sort somehow, your method sounds pretty organised, don't know how to do mine like that, complete computer novice me LOL. Huggles. Ellie :D

Hi Humbug, I have got a section where I can make a folder but can only put in individually and that can take just as long as answering the discussion. I am sure there is an easier way, I am working from an AOL toolbar and have firefox but haven't got how to work that as I don't like the aol in box on that one. I will get one of my daughters to help me next time they are home I think, I am just such a novice when it comes to any thing to do with a computer. I accidentally pressed a wrong button once which I think automatically done this, I had all the emails from one comp0any altogether and all the myLot altogether that were alphabetical too but I really don't know what button I managed to press that day LOL, wish I could find it again. Huggles. Ellie :D

I am down to 438 now as I had to delete a load as son should be back at school tomorrow which means as he was sick I was off work too looking after him so I will be back at work and it fills quite quickly. I'll try the control button and see if that works. I can only tick through firefox not the aol one I use for some reason. Will try and be back in a mo. Yes I am on Scorpis site but doubt I'll have much time to play there often. Huggles. Ellie :D

hahaha....... Indeed we are! Let's see who does it faster....

Hi Mimipi, I think I may have to start doing something similar as yet again this morning my inbox was full so I don't know how many emails I haven't received either. We are both playing catch up then. Huggles. Ellie :D

Hi Carol, This is what I usually do but at present my inbox will only hold a 1000 emails and it is at 906 at present as I had to delete about a 100 to make some space. I may try to turn notifications off for a while whilst I play catch up eh! Hi Ananth, a big warm welcome to myLot, have fun hear, keep posting, keep responding and make lots of wonderful friends. Ellie :D

Many of the people are cheating us like the fake emails. Simply they will tell that u will be getting huge money. So, to get your money u have to send the postal or courier charges around some dollers. So, it is not worthy and You have to delete the messages immediately. That will be the better for your system also. I suggest you to dont open that of mails. Thank you. This is ananth from India.

posh, indeed.

Hi Makingpots, Wise words from you also and I am pleased to hear that I am not the only one falling behind. I will just relax back and answer as many as I can without beating myself up about it I think as there are some that just pop in from time to time so they surely couldn't answer to all so I guess friends do understand this. I tried this system I had thought of but that didn't seem to work either. Huggles. Ellie :D

LOL u r right take ur time Bye

Hi Cupid, I am taking a bit of a break right now and just catching up on my unresolved and responding and then I will come back refreshed as if day one to that days discussions and go from there I think. LOL, I answered one of yours once that was a year old if I remmeber correctly. Huggles. Ellie :D

Hi Littleowl, No it was me Ellie you were responding to its just that Mands liked your idea and managed to respond before I did, as you know from this discussion I am a bit behind LOL. Great idea though but looking at my page one I think perhaps I should delte as nearly all inactive anyway. Huggles. Ellie :D

Hi mands...am sorry I called you ellie in my response littleowl

oh thats a good idea page 1 this week and 2 next week thats quite fair good thinkin batman

Hi Dizzblnd, I know for a fact that there are some of yours I haven't responded to but I think they were to do with your elections if I recall and I haven't a clue there so forgive me. 5 days, wow, perhaps I ought to think up another way eh! LOL. Huggles. Ellie :D

You are so right, I truly love myLot as a single parent I don;t get out in the evenings much so this is my social life and I have met so many wonderful friends. It is just that I have some people of my friends list who have never ever answered any of mine but I do theirs sometimes but my loyal friends who do I feel a bit bad about missing some, especially with time I could give some really indepth positive input into but with so many quality people on this site with quality discussions I guess we are bound to miss a few eh! Huggles. Ellie :D

hey... don't ever worry about me.. like one your other friends had said, you are a great person and no one should expect anyone to answer all of their discussions. Sometimes, as you have found, you can't relate to all of them. Your real friends understand, so don't worry about it too much. No sense in stressing yourself out, then you begin to despise something you truly love.

Hi Sweety, This isn't usually a problem as I do manage to keep up but my inbox will only hold 1000 emails and I have had to delete lots of discussions to free up some space but I have still got about 900. I think most people are understanding so yes I will answer ones I can immediately and give a good response to rather than to speed through and not give the discussions the time and input they deserve. Hi Ananth, yes friendship is definitely precious and very much a two way thing I agree. Ellie :D

Hello sweety, I am ananth from India. and i like to tell you something that replying is very much important by the way we can accept their friendship and give respect to them also.

Hi Louise, I think I may have worded this discussion incorrectly as you are the third person that has answered re responses to my discussions. I always respond to each individual and do like you do just keep one response on email to remind me to respond but I am meaning discussions from friends I receive in email that I just can't keep up with. P1key was first to respond so have responded to a few I have missed and then Nat will be next but I was just wondering if there was an easier way. Thank you for your input I appreciate it. I know for a fact I have a few of yours to catch up on, like I missed a few before your sons wedding but have managed most to respond to since then, I hope (fingers crossed) LOL Huggles. Ellie :D

Easier said than done as inbox only holds 1000 and I have 955 notifications at present. This is why I asked for help LOL. Huggles, Ellie :D

OH!!! Then in that case I would suggest that you go through them according to the date that they were received that seems fair to me. First in, First out!

Hi Polachicago, Well if you have been away for a month I really appreciate you responding to this discussion. I am taking time out at the moment other than to respond to responses I have recieved and to mark all unresolved and will start again refreshed in a few days. Thank you, what you say is so true, friends will understand. Good to see you back. Huggles. Ellie :D

Hi Ronaldino, I have turned notifications off for a while so I can catch up and taking some time out and will come back refreshed and uptodate from when I start back again as overwhelmed by it all really. I don't start as many discussions as you do so I can imagine the ask you have ahead. Huggles. Ellie :D

Hi Cinderella, LOL Auto respond, it just wouldn't be they same eh! I am taking a bit of time out to respond and sort unresolved and will start again refreshed answering discussions when I can. I like you have so many extra committments away from the Lot right now but my friends here are important to me too so don't want to upset them by not responding to their discussions, but I guess you understand that eh! Short Term Memory, affects us all, forget which letter, what are you like LOL. Huggles. Ellie :D

Hi Elitess, That is brilliant that you managed to answer at least one from every single friend, well done. Thanks for letting me know that, I am actually strugling with it as I can't remember which ones I have responded to and which I haven't so I am going back to really old ones of theirs from before I was here LOL so that should resurface a few old discussions from the archives LOL. Huggles. Ellie :D

Hi again ellie, just wanted to tell you that i managed it... i went through the six pages of friends and responded at least one discussion to all of my friends. I am expecting some nice income tomorrow from today activity

Hi David, I have just decided now to chill and just answer as many as I can. Huggles. Ellie :D

Hola Ellie Sounds like a good plan! I am was always amazezed wondered how you maintain such consistant posts responses and replies! I know you can type and that helps for sure but its not all. Do you Halloween in the UK do the kids trick or treat? Hasta David :)

Hi Munchkin, Glad you undersand, I guess we probably worry too much eh, friends are friends and understand that some have more time than others to respond to discussions. I'm taking a bit of time out and just responding to responses and resolving unresolved and then I will come back refreshed as if day one and then I will be able to answer most then that way. Huggles. Ellie :D