Have yo found your dream guy?
October 20, 2008 1:19am CST
I have found a really admirable guy, my dream guy if you should call it but we're just friends and he just considers me as a good friend. I like him but I don't want to show it because I don't want to ruin our friendship so I still stay as his friend. I want him to be my boy friend but it seems we just can't be. Have you ever been in this situation before?
20 Oct 08
I have found my dream guy way back in college. We'd been together for 4 years. He's too sweet, a very simple guy. He's intelligent. I couldn't describe my feelings when I 'm with him....but time comes that we really need to separate. He loves me so much that jealousy always comes in our way. Until now, I'm missing him... But I believe he has moved on because he already has a new girlfriend.
20 Oct 08
It is a good thing that you have found the guy of your dream. Not everybody is as lucky as you, because things not always turn out the way we want it to be. However you should always put in mind that your dreams would never be the same with the guy's dreams. Maybe yes, he has all the criteria you want to make him your boyfriend. But what about him? Does he think you have all the criteria to be his girlfriend? Have you talked about this with him before? I think you should. In this way you will be able to figure out whether both of you are suitable for each other, or it is only you clapping with one hand. There is no use if only one person is having the love, because love takes two person. Like people have been saying "It takes two to tango", the same goes with a relationship. I have been in your situation too. He has all the things I want and I think he is the one. But luck was not on my side and I found out he already had a steady girlfriend. So I accepted the situation and went on with life. I didn't take things so hard because I know everything that happens must have a good point besides it. And it is true because in the end I found my now husband and he is much more better than the previous guy. I love him very much and until now we are still in love and nothing in the world is better than our love (at least that is how we feel about it). So, you just take it easy. If God has meant him to be yours, he will be yours. If not, don't be so heart broken because there will always be someone else waiting for you in the future. You just don't know yet. Have faith, and God will help you in every way.
20 Oct 08
i found one!!lol, but he is not my ideal guy!!but i should say the right guy for me, he was my boyfriend for 5 years and untill now we are together thatnk god!!!and i can say our relationship is going stronger than before!!!happy lotting...