When should you decide not to be friends with someone

Chatsworth, California
October 20, 2008 5:06am CST
I'm wondering about it right now with a couple people.
8 responses
@Pigglies (9329)
• United States
21 Oct 08
It's a hard choice to make. I think it happens naturally sometimes when your interests just start drifting apart. But sometimes you have to force it to happen if your friend is doing something that is bringing you down.
• Philippines
20 Oct 08
When I feel that the person is already abusing me, and when I sleep I feel like that person has indeed violated me, and I am no longer happy with what the person has been doing to me.
@oderog (731)
• Kenya
20 Oct 08
Making friends with might take time, it will also requires somebody to must have known that persons for sometimes. There must be some qualities that probably you've noticed during your interaction with that person. Also there could be some reasons why you want to make friends let's say you want to know more about the place or country that person is coming from. Through online you can make a lot of friends from different part of the world which is quite recommended. Exact time to make friendship actually depned with you and how see the person you want to befriend
@srsddn (98)
• India
20 Oct 08
When you start realising that there is some element of selfishness creeping into the friendship or when as a friend some one has started exploiting or one you start getting into some conflicting interest at some stage. If you are in a profession which requires helping others then you have to be careful and prefer not to have friendship with people you are helping
• Philippines
20 Oct 08
maybe when being friends with that person is starting to cause you harm or is becoming a negative experience for you, and you have done what you can to make things better and save the friendship yet the conflict remains unresolved.
• India
20 Oct 08
A friend is a person with whom you can share any thing,if your friend is hiding some thing from you,though it doesn't harm you or it makes you unhappy.if he/she do this with out any reason that convinces you,you can decide not to be friends with them,friend is the only person you can choose in your life,if he/she is not free with you while sharing their feelings either about you or between you,then there is no meaning for your friendship.
• Australia
20 Oct 08
When you loose there trust and they start ignoring you and act like your not important at all.
@iamcdy (1119)
• Philippines
20 Oct 08
I had that feeling before with someone. I felt like she was just using me and our other friends. I stayed away from her for a while and decided not to talk to her anymore. We do talk now but we are no longer close friends. We just talk about work. I think the decision should be made when friendship fades, she just uses you for her own benefit and stabs your back.