do you ever invite all your friends over for a huge party?

The last time we threw a big party at our house was years ago. Our kids were younger and it was easier for everyone to come here. I did have mega birthday parties here for our kids over the years. Was always fun but a huge mess. Told my husband that when he decides to bar-b-que, we need to have a group of friends here for a change. We are always going somewhere else to party. I begin to feel like a lazy leach after awhile!

A few years back my partner and i had house parties all the time.We rarely go out now and the house parties really no lomger exist.The only time we really have a house party now is during the christmas holidays.In the summer we have a few people over now and then for a few drinks and a barbecue but thats about it.

We really can't do that. For one thing, our apartment is only 500 square feet, for another thing, all of our friends are scattered all over Canada, the USA, and the rest of the world, so it would be hard to get them all together. It would be nice to do, but it would not be easy.