Cyber love

Philippines
October 21, 2008 8:49am CST
Is it possible to fall in love with a person you met in cyber space? Lots of people say that they do fall in love even before they personally meet their love interest. Comment on this please because i believe that it is almost impossible? Like a dream relationship?
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13 responses
@afmshajib (196)
• Bangladesh
21 Oct 08
I didn't. But i really want to. I'm looking for a cyber girlfriend. :)
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• Philippines
21 Oct 08
Thanks and wihing that your dreams will come true someday.
• Philippines
21 Oct 08
Yes it's possible to fall in love with a person you met in cyber space. Other even fall in love through cellphones. My cousin married his textmate for a short period of time. I also other people who married their chatmates from different countries
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• Philippines
21 Oct 08
Thanks for the enlightening reply. It is really possible.
@cher913 (25859)
• Canada
21 Oct 08
absolutely! i know a few couples that have gone that route and have gotten married, but one couple (she lives in canada, he lives in the us) are having a heck of a time trying to get together as neither government will recognize the other person. my advice? never marry anyone from out of your country!
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• Philippines
21 Oct 08
That's a rare case dear. But i salute those men who are sincere with the ladies in this cyber thing. Thanks for the information my friend. As the song goes; when you wish upon a star, your dreams come true. Thank you and can i add u up.
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@abyin007 (426)
• India
21 Oct 08
it is possible but very dangerous if u dont knw that person........
• Philippines
21 Oct 08
Oh definitely, abyin007. I'll better stick with someone i know so well and even if it is not mutual, it will be fine. I still love the person no matter what. Go get her now man. Text her, email her or call her. Don't waste your time replying here. MyLot can wait. I just said I LOVE YOU to the one i love most awhile ago.
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@efemtee (158)
• Philippines
22 Oct 08
It is good to believe in love. But we actually have to be very careful with these kinds of stuff. There are so many bad people over the internet and i guess it is more of an issue regarding trust. I better make friends here than move on onto a higher level of relationship. This is good enough for me already.
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@kiwibee (240)
• New Zealand
22 Oct 08
It's possible. But both parties have to be really honest for it to work, and the only person you can be sure of in that respect (until you meet them in the flesh) is yourself. I mean, you could be being truly upfront about everything, but if the other person is not, then there's no basis for a good strong relationship. You need to meet in person to know if it's true, too. My son met his wife online. They were in a forum and began communicating because they liked the same sort of music. It took off from there... And after some months he traveled to USA to meet her and her family. Because they had both been honest, there was no big "shift" needed when they met in person, and the relationship continued to grow. They got married about 18 months after they "cyber-met", and have just had their 7th anniversary. They are very happy. She is a lovely girl and I'm so happy my son found her. Especially since I introduced him to that forum where they ended up meeting :-)
22 Oct 08
Definitely ... No matter what kind of love we pursuit or will have ,it's a real thing between people and we will get what we are eager to unless we are scenerely communicate to each other ... Take care ...
• Philippines
1 Nov 08
Of course it is possible to fall in love to someone you just met on the internet. I've been with my girlfriend for 6 years and still counting. we met on the internet and we became friends and then became lovers. And its not really impossible to have a relationship with someone you just met on the net.
@nini89 (670)
• India
1 Nov 08
Hi Cholestrawberry! It is possible cyber love. The words and the feelings that we exchange for a longer period make each other to fall in love. There are case of internet love. They come and visit the place and if the meetiing finishes in good conditions and if his or here behaviour and family likes then they get in marriage. But I have read it in news papers bout the internet love personally I did not come across. Havea nice day.
@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
24 Oct 08
thanks for the BR friend....
@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
23 Oct 08
I have heard many stories of people falling in love and even marrying through cyber love. Infact one of my friend's son was very much in love with a girl whom he had never met,but only interacted through chatting.He fell in love with her and even proposed to her,without even exchanging photographs.They exchanged many details and were both working in top jobs.Finally he convinced his parents about his love for her and even fixed a date for marriage. Two days before the wedding ,he went to the airport to meet her,and was shell shocked to see that she was dark and not at all good looking,while he was a handsome man.But he remained true to his word and married her....But I hear it did not last long.... I guess these youngsters get too carried away in their make believe world.....
@belk89 (1103)
• Philippines
22 Oct 08
If you happen to meet the person online it is possible. There is nothing impossible when it comes to love. Some people even fall in love through text. So anything is possible. I believe that there are people who meet someone they get along well.But i dont think there is such a thing as a dream relationship. We are the one who just make a list of things we are looking for a person then when we saw something is missing we right away say it is not the right person we wanna spend out life with.Every person has its own preference of finding the right one.For some people they prefer someone they personally knew and for some they find love online. Every individual has its own preference in finding love.
@23uday (2998)
• India
22 Oct 08
Hi buddies Yeah cyber love has sprung into our normal lives.It has a very norm thing in the present times.But its really very difficult to judge a person through ,because may not letting out true feelings.True love is impossible to gain through cyber spaces. We can analyse the person to some extent but noty totally.Through chatting one gets attracted ,the way a person responds to them.and they perceive it as love which is just a strong liking or an admiration.A person who speaks to heart gives the true love but we rarely find people who read our minds and speak to our heart.
@rsa101 (29932)
• Philippines
22 Oct 08
Yes there are plenty of people who found love on the net as well. I have no statistics of how many they have been successful on it and how many failed because of that. I rather find it riskier than meeting person offline since being online you could hide who you really are than meeting them in person. although it's true that meeting them in person can also hide their but it is easier for me to discover if something is wrong with that person since you could feel and see him in person rather than that on being online.