What's so hush hush about night shifts and call centers?

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@mimpi1911 (25464)
India
October 22, 2008 3:29am CST
What's so hush hush about call center jobs or night shifts or even sleep overs? Why do we associate lust with darkness and create a notion of being into lust activities at night? I just can't understand this. If we have to do it, we can do it during other times of the day as well, with the sun shining high and bright! We are still humans with desire! What do you feel guys?
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@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
22 Oct 08
Hi Mou nice question i might say that night is dark, and dark is associated with evil things might be evil work better in nights and grab innocent people in Lust. other things most of people are sleeping at that time low chances of having witnesses While every one is up, every thing is clear and other thing, Nights to rest and if u have to work in it, its not that ideal. so May be its reason
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
23 Oct 08
LOL @ sleeping at that time low chances of having witnesses.. well said cupid!
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
23 Oct 08
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
23 Oct 08
Thanks for liking it
@Munchkin547 (2778)
22 Oct 08
To be honest i've never really thought of night shifts or anything as being hush hush, i used to work in a healthcare call centre and i can assure you there was nothing lustful about it! lol you're right there are plenty of other times of the day where you can fit things like that in!! hehe xxx
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
24 Oct 08
Munchie dear In our society, it's taken otherwise, many times. And We need to change this OUTLOOK BIG TIME. Even in this era of globalisation we pick on petty stuffs and make living miserable.
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
24 Oct 08
Exactly my point there!
24 Oct 08
I suppose different societies view things differently - here it's just taken as part of some jobs, and a way to make a living! I hope people's outlooks where you are do change though, it can't be nice having people think sordid things about you when all you are doing is going to work! xxx
@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
23 Oct 08
I just cannot relate with a logical conclusion why darkness is related with lust. I'm not much aware about night shifts in call centres and hush hush activities. I think, when people are at the call centre during night shifts, they are supposed to discharge their duties continuously. I understand they do not even get much time to relax so how do they do hush hush activities is not clear to me. You are right if one has to get physical with the other fellow, he/she may not wait for the night. Perhaps, doing something in dark is considered as clandestine and people feel that if they do something in dark, they won't get noticed.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
24 Oct 08
It's strange that living in India you still are not aware of this! Lucky you!
@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
24 Oct 08
Would like you to please enlighten me further on the issue.
@bjcyrix (6901)
• Philippines
22 Oct 08
Heya, I think this is because most people wouldnt dare to be seen in public in the middle of the day when the sun is bright just in case they ever get caught. The dark would at least mask the faces when they are in shadow. Also, think there might be less chance of bumping into someone or being caught when its night rather than in the day. Most people would be asleep or in their own houses at night. Guess thats where this misconception comes from. But then again, that is just my guess.^_^
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
24 Oct 08
You are right on, BJ. That's indeed the reason why night time is associated with such activities. We wait for darkness to befall before we start doing sneaky things.
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@bjcyrix (6901)
• Philippines
24 Oct 08
Hehehe, still have to be careful though, just in case.
@sweetie1026 (1718)
• Philippines
23 Oct 08
I agree with you on that. But maybe, just maybe it is better during the night because it is more romantic.....that, most are doing it at night.I don't know really , i enjoy it anytime of the day though
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
24 Oct 08
. Indeed it's romantic in mellow lights! In our culture people kinda make mountain many times out of a mole that's sickening. I am glad that you are so nice to your daughter and that's the way it should be.
• Philippines
23 Oct 08
But i don't give much notice to whatever people think of this thoug, as i use to go out with friends after work and go home late, sometimes almost at daybreak. My daughter used to work at a call center too and she was in the graveyard shift, people at our neighborhood used to stare at her, whenever she leaves, wondering where she is heading at that unholy hour.
@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
23 Oct 08
Hello Mimpi..well in the day time law makers are always around and vigilant..at night law breakers are more vigilant and very much around.So the cover of darkness carry with it unsafeness,and danger .The sun shining high and bright causes people to look for cover while darkness provides the perfect settings for under cover activities...So night jobs carry its own net of unsafety for people in general....
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
24 Oct 08
That's so well said! Congratulations on your red star!
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@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
24 Oct 08
Thanks Mimpi......for everything........I still have along way to go...another 100 to get emoticons,then another 300 to get cut and paste...... BTW WISH YOU A VERY HAPPY DIWALI
@alokn99 (5717)
• India
22 Oct 08
We tend to associate things good and socially acceptable with the day and things that are not socially acceptable with the night. Intimacy is sought in the most silent and calm of surroundings and hence the association and prevalance of the night. So while what we refer to as illicit relationships or those out of a legal union as not acceptable social qualities , we seem to think it happens mostly happens in the night. This may have been true in the previous generations, the notion of it though seems to have remain unchanged. Having said this, it varies from our social upbringing and in a way the the information and negative conotations we go on recieving in regard to this. While sleep overs in some cultures is a totally acceptable behaviour, in countries like ours it is associated with us being upto some mischief. There a huge number of people who work the night shifts whether it be in call centres or else where. But it is in some places that this freedom to be allowed to work in the night given to young professionals which is misused as the freedom to do things the way they please and indulge in these activities. It also happens that in many work places there are lesser people in the night shift and lesser supervion and vigil thus preventing opportunity.So every time something like this comes into the limelight,it gets more attention due to the fact that it happens in the night and also at the workplace. They could be doing this in the day as well, but it usually s parents and people concerned think they have a sort of control and awareness in the day and less in the night. So as you say Mimpi it is a notion, but one that is carried down form what we have been made to believe and also due to some prevalent activites which some believe only reinforce it. But the fact is humans that we are, our lust and desires know no time , no seasons ,no places...
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
22 Oct 08
Hi Alok That's so well justified and I dare not refute. There is no point since you are spot on. Yes, night means dark, evil and sinister activities. All criminal minds get charged up during night. Its certainly the synonym of notoriety, evil and illicit behaviours of man kind. Lust as in physical intimacy is largely associated with darkness as well. We make love under cover that what makes us superior to other mammals. But don't you think, its time we changed. Don't you think we must move forward. With the globe coming inside our houses, with so many advancements around, with the economy going gaga over NASDAQ, FTSE, NIKKEI, I think we must move from this inhibitions. In our society its still prevalent and I feel so degraded to read and see how people make fuss out of nothing. That was quite a rant!
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@alokn99 (5717)
• India
23 Oct 08
How do we tend to evaluate the night in our religious, ethical or philosophical ponderings and in our actions ? It's actually a subject being studied for some time as Anthropology of the night and also as a study of "nocturnal passions". It's only a present belief that Night is sin's harvesting time and the association of the night with wrongdoing.In fact in today's world, awareness and getting out the ignorance will make us understand things quite differently. And as you have so rightly said with the globe coming inside our houses, things need to change and will.
@James72 (26790)
• Australia
22 Oct 08
I guess it is all tied in with the concept of darkness. The setting of the sun has invoked tales of primal sufferings and creatures of the night throughout history. Folklore has been strongly influenced by it; horror writers and movie director's such as Anne Rice and Wes Craven have been inspired by it; and many a small child has spent their evenings in bed with ther covers oulled over their heads because of it! There is probably also this mindset because night time is a time of rest, a time to sleep and relax. Not a time to head out into the world and be active. This connotation has been created because it is felt that anybody that is out and about in the darkest hours has defied the standard behaviours of most so therefore must be up to no good or abnormal. Human beings are cyclical creatures, as are plants and animals. Night is the time when all things wither down and rest. To defy these natural behaviours inspires hedonism I guess because there is a level of non-conformity attached to it!
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
22 Oct 08
With the mention of cycles of living beings you have given a different perspective to this James. It's so interestingly put! Nights are but embodiment of darkness, sinister patterns of life , as you have said. Defying that would be indeed non-conformist act. I just want societies like ours be more open to things like jobs that adhere to night shifts more openly. A lot has been changed but a lot more has to be. People still sneak into a pickup in fear of being noticed by the neighbourhood while starting for her job at night! That's kind of sickening.
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
22 Oct 08
actually at places people are not well aware. they should know that these jobs are not bad ones. the nature of job is that. may be the lack of awareness
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
22 Oct 08
Yes, our society is still lagging behind. I appreciate the good things of being traditional but the hind side needs to be corrected. Thanks for your response.
@wangkai (797)
• China
22 Oct 08
i think that perhaps human have a kind of natural afraid.what i said is suited to your discussion?
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
22 Oct 08
You mean people are scared to do night shifts?
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
22 Oct 08