Caught cheating AGAIN!!

United States
October 22, 2008 10:41am CST
I did a post about a month ago about my husbands friend who walked in on his wife cheating. Well, after about a week of living with us, they "worked things out" and he decided to give her another chance. Now, in my opinion that was waaaay to fast but hey, if it works for them then that's their business. He told my husband that she was always apologetic and was going overboard to get his forgiveness and he said it was hard but he was going to start trusting her again. Not even three weeks later, he caught her doing it AGAIN!! This time, he was on his way to lunch and saw her car pass by. He called her and asked her where she was going and she lied and said she was at home! So, he follows her and she ends up at a house he's never been to before. She got out the car, knocked on the door, and a guy (different one from the one she cheated on him with before because the last time he caught them it was his COUSIN!!) opened the door. They started kissing and she went into the house. Now, my thing is this. At that point I would accept the fact that my spouse is a cheater and not put myself through any more drama. But no! He calls her again and this time she does not answer the phone. Now, I must warn you. What happens next sounds like a movie or something but I promise you, it happened. He gets out his car, goes to the front door, turns the knob and sees that the door was left unlocked. He hears his wife giggling and the man moaning. So, I'm thinking, why does he keep going? He knows what they're doing. But he doesn't stop. He follows the noise all the way to the bedroom and busts in on them just getting started to get their grove on. This time, instead of leaving like he did the last time. He grabs the guy and starts beating him and his WIFE grabs the lamp and bust him across the head with it causing him to fall down! She then breaks down and starts crying saying how she loves him and she'll never do it again. Meanwhile, the guy she was messing with leaves out the room and comes back with a gun! He threatens to kill both of them if they don't get out of his house. He then says, "I've never had this many problems with a HOOKER before!!!" A HOOKER?!? So now my husbands friend is stunned because he just found out that his wife works for an escort service! LOL, oh man. When my husband told me this I swore he was lying. I don't even know what I would do in that situation but that is messed up. The sad part about the whole thing is she doesn't act like that. She seems like a wholesome woman. She never raises her voice, she's always cooking and cleaning and doing things that housewives do. Her clothes are pretty traditional and you would just never know she was out there like that. Oh boy...talk about a wold in sheep's clothing huh?
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4 responses
@Shar1979 (2722)
• United States
22 Oct 08
wow that's a real issue. i dont see why they would still live together if was cheated over and over again. time for some counselling
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• United States
27 Oct 08
The thing is, she does NOT seem like that kind of person AT ALL! Every time I was arround her she was like the "perfect" wife. I guess she had a few skeletons in her closet that finally got exposed.
@snowy22315 (170018)
• United States
22 Oct 08
It's sounds like your friend got what he signed up for. If he wants to live that way it's up to him. I dont think you and your husband should get dragged into it though. I would tell him why you dont want him around ,tell him you are concerned about him, and that he and his "beloved" need to get some serious counseling. Maybe he can contact you again if he gets straight.
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• United States
22 Oct 08
You are right snowy but it's hard for my husband because they've been friends for so long. I was never friends with his wife but we were cordial because they'd come over for dinner a few times a month. I just think it's crazy that she appeared to be one way and was actually a completely different person! So sad.
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@Jezebella (1446)
• United States
27 Oct 08
oh my goodness I couldn't believe it as I read it! A hooker! Oh my gosh, like what did she tell him she did? How could you keep such a lie like that? Oh my I don't know what else to say. Like why would he even go back to her in the first place after the first time catching her cheating, now he found out she is a hooker, what is he going to do, is he going to like stay with her?
@lisa0502 (1724)
• Canada
22 Oct 08
That is just nuts. I don't know but if I were him I would walk on her and move on. But we can not tell him what to do. I would just say be there for the poor guy. As long as he knows that someone just supports him would make him feel better. It is so hard when commitment only goes one way. I would also be reminding this guy that there are std's out there and to go get tested for them.
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