Dating magazines,are they right?

I tend to think that articles like that cause more damage than good..for a couple reasons...Take my husband for example, if I were to follow the advice in articles like that I'd SWEAR my husband was cheating...FACT IS however, he's not...he just works way too hard and is exhausted...he spreads himself way too thin and its wearing him out...Articles like that are just far too generalized for my tastes and truth be told there are so many ppl out there who are already beyond paranoid for whatever reason, when they read or hear things like that it makes them even worse....I'd even go as far as to say that I wouldnt be the least bit surprised if many a marriage or relationship came to a nasty end thanks to things like that when there was no cheating involved at all.... As for "what men want to hear" well I'm sorry but that implies one should lie to their partner and thats not somehting i care for in the slightest...IMO what men and women want to hear is THE TRUTH..I would knock the everloving out of my partners if they only told me what they THINK I want to hear because they read it in some magazine or saw it on some talk show...because believe me, no magazine or talk show guest knows what I WANT to hear, how could they, they arent me....