Which is better?

@agrant10 (1446)
United States
October 23, 2008 7:05am CST
We live in a society where you hear the words I love you all the time. Mylotter if you had to choose one which would you choose? A partner that says I love you all the time and never shows it or a partner that shows you they love you but never tell you. Which would you choose? Think about it and let me know.
9 responses
• Bahrain
24 Oct 08
I rather actions than spoken words. Words can always be empty and meaningless if said without truth backing them up, but actions never lie
@fifileigh (3620)
• United States
24 Oct 08
i guess shows u they love u is better because lots of people can say the words, but not necessarily meaning it. just saying it to give you what you want to hear. it is better that they show you they love you to proof they really love you.
@tryxiness (4548)
• Philippines
24 Oct 08
Of course I will choose a partner who shows me how much he loves me, I still believe that actions speak louder than words. But then again, sometimes for the sake of really hearing that the person loves you, words can in a way supplement and validate the actions of love.
@sahed159 (369)
23 Oct 08
This sentence is so sweet that it can make a life sweet & lovely :)
@ANTIQUELADY (36468)
• United States
23 Oct 08
both would be nice. i think i'd choose the oine who shows me.
@arunmails (3011)
• India
23 Oct 08
According to me, I choose the person who loves me and never tell me that he/she loves me..... but shows their love in every activity they do for me.....
@tyc415 (5706)
• United States
23 Oct 08
Love can be shown in so many ways, even just a look can say so much. The words I love you are just that....words. Sometimes the words can become a habit to say them and they can mean nothing coming from the person. I would much rather my husband show me he loves me than tell me.
23 Oct 08
If I had to choose, it would be a partner who showed they loved me but never said it. The word love is throw around too often these days, and to me, saying 'I love you' is a really big deal. If someone was to say it to me all the time and not show how they love me then I'd end up not believing them. If someone was to show me they loved me, I wouldnt be too dissapointed they hadn't said it, I'd know they'd think it
• Philippines
23 Oct 08
well, action speaks louder than words, for me better to choose the one who loves me even without telling me that he loves me, rather than someone who always tell you that he loves u, yet it doesn't show to his actions. i am not atracted to a person who is so flowery in words, make so many promises, yet is not true enough to his words.