Fear in Love
October 23, 2008 10:48pm CST
When I fall in love one peculiar feeling afflict upon me and even after many a loves I have been unsuccessful to comprehend why it does happen or if it does happen with me only or other lovers do also pass through the same avenues while they also are in love. When in love I am really pained, I should write, tormented, that is, I undergo an inexplicable tremendous misery with a fear that I may lose her when I have to spend time away from the dream element whom I do love. And even, surprisingly, the same fear grab my sense when my beloved is close to me. Will you tell me why does it happen with me and if it does happen with others too ?
24 Oct 08
mookhor, One cannot attempt to Love without risking being hurt. Like two sides of a coin, it is just part of the deal as you accept Love into your life. When you open the floodgates, you will take in all things, both good and bad. If you are weary about the other party's intention, then you need to avoid taking haste and making irrational decision. Hence, your next course of action would be to figure out if he is the right fit - at least a comfortable fit. Halt that emotions for just a moment first - enjoy the platonic and casual friendship naturally, without placing yourself into some self-constructed commitment. Since you both are still within the 'friendship' zone, then behave and think likewise (albeit you probably will not be able to feel along this direction, but that's alright). This course of action will allow the both of you the much needed time and space to let each other explore and express oneself. So, like they always say Less haste, less waste. Take care.