Are you going to the polls alone?

United States
October 24, 2008 9:15pm CST
I've heard the suggestion from a couple of different sources that it's a good idea to bring a friend or two with you when you go to the polls to vote this year. For a number of practical reasons, half a dozen of us from my neighborhood are all going to the polls together - shared ride, moral support, and company for those long waiting in line times among the reasons. We range in age from 18 to 64, are white, black, Hispanic, Asian and Native American, and have a variety of viewpoints on the various issues on the ballot. We've even joked about taking along a deck of cards in case the wait is really long. How about you? Are you going to the polls alone, getting a ride with a friend or going with family?
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@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
25 Oct 08
I have to drag my 9 year old with me LOL He has to suffer just like I did when I was a kid.
• United States
25 Oct 08
Too funny! My mom never took me along, but we kids got to hear her and my dad debate each other for weeks before every election, since they were always on opposite sides of the election. I hope your son is a good conversationalist!
@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
25 Oct 08
Not really lol. He has to day off and I will treat him to lunch LOL My parents never ever ever discussed politics in front of us and still really don't. I don't think they ever vote the same. The don't even bother with my brother & myself because we vote independent. I think my Aunt does as well.
• United States
25 Oct 08
I'd forgotten that a lot of our own local schools are closing for the day because they either are or are close to polling places.
@lvaldean (1612)
• United States
25 Oct 08
Went alone yesterday. Voted all by my little ole lonesome. Didn't need anyone to read to me was perfectly capable of understanding the process all by myself. Even told the pollester at the front of the building who I planned to vote for when I went in....guess what the Bradley affect wasn't working with me. Texas will be purple if I have anything to say.
@lvaldean (1612)
• United States
25 Oct 08
Yeah for the Red Hat Society. My children along with their significant others bought me a Red Hat doll for my big 50 b-day. She is quite cool in her elegance and charm. She sits on my desk and reminds me why life is worth living to its fullest each day.
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• United States
25 Oct 08
I'm all for purple. Your post just suddenly reminded me that I'm only a couple of months away from eligibility for the Red Hat Society, inspired by the poem that starts "When I am an old lady, I will wear purple with a red hat that doesn't go and doesn't suit me anyway". I'll proudly wear purple right along with you, lvaldean!
@nangel78 (1454)
• United States
25 Oct 08
I went to vote early the other day on my way home from work. It was not too bad and I got it done.
• United States
25 Oct 08
It's really nice to hear that the reports of long long lines at the polling places seem to be exaggerated. Unfortunately, since my state is pretty strict on absentee ballots and early voting, I'm still expecting long lines on election day.
@us2owls (1681)
• United States
25 Oct 08
Since I will be out of the county where I am registered to vote and am leaving the country for an extended period on Nov 6th I have already voted. I went to vote on the first day for absentee balloting and I was the first one to vote in my county and in case you are interested I voted for McCain. I took a long hard look at Obama and he left too many questions in my mind to vote for him plus his choice of running mate was the final nail in his coffin for me.
• United States
25 Oct 08
It's nice to see people taking things so seriously this election. I've never seen so many people so engaged and proactive about making sure that they're allowed to exercise their right to vote. I specifically didn't ask people to name who they voted for because in my eyes, it's all good. Voting is civic engagement and the more people who are actively paying attention and learning enough to make up their minds. the more likely it is that we'll have an active and engaged government that takes our voices seriously. Thanks for your response!
• India
26 Oct 08
I prefer going with friends and family, living a life alone is not at all good for any body so when going to poll or any other thing always go with the friends it will give you an opportunity of social welfare, when you are alone, what you think is the primary decision, but when you are with your family the right decision can be made easily.
• United States
31 Oct 08
I like moral support and company, too, though I tend to make up my own mind. Thanks for responding!
• United States
25 Oct 08
Last time I voted we had our own grocery store and our kids were too young to vote so my husband went during the day and I went that night. By the time I got to the voting place which was a church I managed to walk right in, so there wasn't a crowd and no waiting line whatsoever. However, we lived in the country. Now, we live in the middle of town and with this election being so talked about and with such passionate supporters on both sides, I'm expecting to be waiting a while this year. I am really excited about this election as this will be the first time that my son and my oldest daughter will be voting. My daughter is 19 and my son is 22 and although he could have voted in the last election, he didn't want to. However, this year he is very certain of who he wants in office and is ready to vote. I don't think that all of us will be voting for the same candidate but we all respect each other's opinions and don't argue about it so that is good. I am happy to see my oldest kids taking an interest in the debates and the politics now and can only hope that my youngest, who just turned 18 in September, will want to vote in the next election.
• United States
25 Oct 08
It's wonderful to hear that you all respect each other enough to not fight about your political choices. My parents and I disagree on this one, but we've chosen not to talk politics rather than arguing with each other. I'm very proud that all three of my voting age children, including the one who used to consider himself an anarchist, are voting in this election. Doesn't it make you feel good to know you raised kids who take their responsibilities as citizens seriously?
• United States
25 Oct 08
Yes, it is very gratifying to see my children take time out from spending time with friends, hanging out and doing the "young thing" to do the "adult things" like voting for the next leader of our country. Now if only I can get the youngest one to care as well. Well, it took one election going through before my son got involved so I'm sure Kelli will be going to vote come 2012.
@laglen (19759)
• United States
25 Oct 08
i go alone. The polling place is less than a block away. I can go on to my front porch and see if there is a line. I do take my daughter though. This way, when she is old enough, she will realize how easy it is!
• United States
25 Oct 08
It's great to be so close to your polling place! We'll have to go by public transit, so it will probably take us half an hour to get there (including the walk to the bus stop and the ride). I love your reasoning for taking your daughter along. Three of mine are eligible and registered to vote this year - I had the supreme pleasure of seeing my 18 year old cast her first vote during the primaries - just a few days after her 18th birthday. She was so excited that she made her boyfriend register and come with us to vote, too.
@irisheyes (4370)
• United States
25 Oct 08
I'm not anticipating any problems. I vote at a little Quaker Friends School in the small town adjacent to my own little town. I usually go as soon the polls open and although the lines were longer than usual in the Pennsylvania Primary, they were not that bad. I usually go alone but meet a lot of neighbors and friends when I get there. In fact the retired couple that live two houses down from me are poll workers.
• United States
25 Oct 08
It's funny - in the primaries, I had no idea at all that one of my neighbors was a poll worker until I saw her checking registrations. It's hard to get to know people when we're all working two jobs and never have time to socialize anymore. I'm glad to hear that the lines don't seem to be quite as bad as they're being reported.
@ClarusVisum (2163)
• United States
25 Oct 08
I second the suggestion to bring cards. Bring SOMETHING. Even early voters are waiting in line for hours all over the country. The turnout this year is going to be like nothing we've ever seen before. I am WORKING at the polls on Election Day, so I probably will have no choice but to go alone. Thing is, I don't know if I'm allowed to vote at the station I'm working at, or if I have to go to another one on my lunch or dinner breaks. Hopefully if the latter is true, the wait won't be too long for me to make it.
• United States
25 Oct 08
Chances are that you'll have to vote in your home precinct. Any chance you'll be able to vote BEFORE heading over to your station?
@spalladino (17891)
• United States
25 Oct 08
I remember dragging one or two of my kids along when I would vote in Maryland for company while I waited in line...and to hopefully give them an interest in the election process. When my husband and I went to vote during the Primary there was one other person voting at 6:00 in the evening. We'll be going together on the 4th. but I don't think we'll have to wait long, if at all. It's a very small district.
@ZephyrSun (7381)
• United States
25 Oct 08
I'm taking my husband but our polling station is about a block (short block) from our house so we will probably walk if the stations are as bad as they say. Are you in a swing state? When I got my card in the card there's like 6 places we can go.
• United States
25 Oct 08
No swing state here - we ain't got no rhythm at all. This is the only state in the whole U.S. that voted for McGovern in 72 . We're about five miles from our polling place, but it's on the bus line so we'll probably all climb on board public transit to go. I still had a car during the primaries - a minivan, in fact - and packed half a dozen neighbors in for a ride to the polls.