Never been Kissed...Never been Touched

@bestie (3272)
Philippines
October 24, 2008 11:25pm CST
I'm into a 4 year relationship right now with my boyfriend and yes,I was never been kissed nor touched..hahaha It's because were far from each other.I'm open to such thing but I don't know if I will allow it when were going to see and be with each other soon. what do you think guys?hehe any advise?
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9 responses
@deserve40 (1656)
• India
25 Oct 08
It is your personal afair and I do not think that you need anyone's advise in this matter. If you are going to meet your boy friend after four years then this kissing seems to be quite natural thing. I do not think that there is any questioin of allowing or disallowing comes here. On the contrary I would say that you may kiss him first and this is not impossible. So just enjoy your company with him and let the things happen in quite natural way. There is no need to think or plan for such things.
@bestie (3272)
• Philippines
25 Oct 08
yeah I get your point.I know it's a personal thing and it needs privacy...ok,I'm seeking an advise just to get your opinion on such thing.I'm not asking for you to say yes you may,no you should not.An opinion just to figure out your views in which I don't consider a necessity to follow it or not. thank's!
@kmurti (100)
• Russian Federation
25 Oct 08
yes rightly said..it is too persoanl a jurney..and learn to enjoy it if at all it happens do not build castles in the air now tnen be dissappointed..
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
25 Oct 08
Hi bestie I think physical warmth is a beautiful thing, it brings people together and the bind grows fonder. I feel kisses, hugs, holding, patting, cuddling are very important in a relationship. I can understand that you two are far apart and that's not really possible. But when it's possible and if you are truly in love you must go ahead with it. That's my perspective I shared with you. You take care, hon.
@bestie (3272)
• Philippines
28 Oct 08
hello dear mimpi! thank you! take care too.
@kenzie45230 (3560)
• United States
25 Oct 08
I met my hubby online, so there was a long time when all we did was use instant messenger, emails and phone calls - to get to know each other and to fall in love. After we finally met in person, we were married 2 months later. That was 3+ years ago.
@bestie (3272)
• Philippines
28 Oct 08
amazing! I'm happy for you both!
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
25 Oct 08
So it is a long distance love affair! Somehow it has advantage....because it keeps you pure! I hope even if you meet you will keep your purity intact my dear. I know purity is not found in many teenagers today but I still believe that purity is demanded by God to those who are not married. Actually this is very clear in the Bible.
@bestie (3272)
• Philippines
26 Oct 08
yeah a long distance...thank's dear!
@Shar1979 (2722)
• United States
25 Oct 08
it's really up to you and your beliefs to it. honestly i won't ever last a year without holding or kissing my partner. LOL that's kinda hard.
@bestie (3272)
• Philippines
25 Oct 08
yeah right! thank's for the response.
• Sri Lanka
31 Oct 08
This is not a bad thing. i am proud of you . you are very open. i am looking some one like you. i cant believe that you wait so long to meet him. my answer is you are very much love to him i must say you must kiss him take your time and kiss him 1000 times or more because these are 4 years pending kisses. Enjoy your life and Happy meeting
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
27 Oct 08
Hmmmm the way u start the discussion that u r complaining about it that since last yrs u have not be kissed and touched, so i am sure u know what u r looking for when u will meet, and u dont need any advise Dont u? just wish u all the best Take care
@despompa (472)
• Philippines
26 Oct 08
really?? wow!! i don't know that there is still someone living by that quote. don't get me wrong but im very surprised. im proud of you, that you have lived this long and your relationship lasted long too with your principles.
@kmurti (100)
• Russian Federation
25 Oct 08
when he comes to u..u will be all his ..if he wants u u will surrender if it true love from ur side if u not sure where ur heart is u bettr not givein..if it is then u let him hve his way love means to be giving and not asking..it is a bold decision to take i wud cos for me love is all..