do you feel jealous sometimes?
By arnoldream
@arnoldream (1332)
Philippines
October 25, 2008 12:47am CST
why do we tend to feel jealousy whenever there's something that come between lovers or relationship, we tend to feel this thing whenever we think that we are taken or set aside by our partner either intentionally or not. sometimes cellphone messages or email makes us to feel jealous..i still remember how my wife burst into anger when somebody send some joke about this in my cellphone and without my knowledge my wife almost left for her province in jealousy and pain she felt about it..how about you are you feeling the same thing or are you jealous sometimes? what can you say about this topic
3 responses
@emarie (5440)
• United States
25 Oct 08
i think jealousy comes from insecurity in ones self or the the relationship. i know i get jealous a lot because i don't have an self confidence. i think there are other better women for my husband and he always has to tell me know. more so he tells me i'm being silly. but i can't help it and there are people like that. but it is something i deal with. i know in my heart that he'll never hurt me, but my brain is saying there's always a possibility and creates the situation in my head.
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@emarie (5440)
• United States
25 Oct 08
i disagree a little with the normal, unless my husband isn't normal. he doesn't get jealous because he feels he doesn't need to. he only got jealous once when first started dating, but i didn't hear about until we were married for 3 years!
but i do agree, that jealousy is a double edge sword and can hurt a relationship if not in check. like me, i know i get jealous, i even unconsciously started down a female co-worker of my husbands when she was waving goodbye to him and he told me later that she asked if i was mad at him or her and then i felt really bad. but my husband always laughs it off because that's just how he is.
@arnoldream (1332)
• Philippines
25 Oct 08
insecurities is one of the culprits that makes us to feel jealous sometimes and some question of trust for our partner..but i think its normal for man to feel such way because this is how we express sometimes how we care for others and of the relationship between two people..but too much or excessive jealousy is hurting and tend to react inappropriately making your partner to feel being squeezed so much and might resort for a breathing space which will not be good either..
@Grace030174 (741)
• Qatar
25 Oct 08
yes i do.
Jealousy is an issue in one relationship or marriage,
jelaous feelings can be annoying, painful and embarrassing
The reality is that we know we can stop the jealousy.
Overcoming jealousy may not be as difficult for everyone as you may think.
@arnoldream (1332)
• Philippines
25 Oct 08
actually we all do, and this thing are symbiotic sometimes with relationship, and its up to us how we will handle situations, naturally if the other partner lacks the same care and attention and time needed for a good relationship thats the time this thing like jealousy flares up..and assuring your partner of your fidelity will take away this thing...
@jimssaftytips (507)
•
25 Oct 08
i do admit that jealousy has crossed my mind a few times well actually more then a few. But does ur partner give signs for a reason to be lealous like talking on the internet nastily to another guy that she shouldnt be talking that way except to her partner. Do they give reason to feel that way i believe they do or the word jealousy wouldnt be a word
@arnoldream (1332)
• Philippines
25 Oct 08
though we dont want to feel jealous sometimes but whenever we are on a situation that we should be jealous i think this is but normal specially when there are things that we should be jealous like some questionable emails,calls or text messages that is somehow making you to feel indifferent. sometimes our partner wants us to be jealous for some reason like knowing how you handle situations and things like this and also just to be sure that you still care much to jealous anyway, but that depends on the situation of course...
