Do you find it difficult to apologise?
By swarovski87
@swarovski87 (328)
Singapore
October 25, 2008 3:35am CST
Do you guys find it difficult to apologise to someone? i know there are some people who find it very hard to apologise to people even though they are in the wrong. As for me, it depends on situations i would say, i wont apologise if i know i am not in the wrong, even i die i also wont apologise! but i will if im in the wrong. maybe im a stubborn person. hehe. What are you? do you find it hard to say sorry to someone?
6 responses
@Humbug25 (12540)
•
26 Oct 08
Hi ya swarovski87
If I am wrong about something I will oppologise as soon as I realise and have no problem doing this. If I am right I will not oppoligise if the other person thinks I am wrong. I will say, ok well if that is what you want to think then you have to deal with it but I know I am right'.
@deserve40 (1656)
• India
25 Oct 08
I did find it difficult to apologise when I was a fresh professional. I learnt with the time and experience gained in the marketing line. I think that one can change one's attitude if one really wants to. I was so adamant many a times that I would never apologise even if I would be in fault.
However, in my very first job, there was a dispute between two of my directors and it was because of some of my actions. I knew that I was right and so one of the directors was favouring me and the other one made it a prestige issue and so the dispute started. I realized that I was becoming a cause for the dispute which may cause partition in a small but growing business house. So I apologised and the matter was ended. Since then I have learnt to apologise when I am wrong and sometimes even if I am not wrong too.
@princejayevents (1245)
• Philippines
25 Oct 08
For me asking apology is one thing that is not difficult to do. As long as I know that It was my fault and the person that I've done it deserves my apology. That is very important for our relationships.
@arunmails (3011)
• India
25 Oct 08
ya... I find very difficult to apologize sometimes.... bcoz these things comes under prestige issues...... sometimes I use to think that why i want to say "sorry", if he can't say the same.....?
@Grace030174 (741)
• Qatar
25 Oct 08
i find it hard especially if u dont know of what and why are u saying sorry..
say sorry if u know that you commit mistake
but never say sorry just to end up the misunderstanding..





