Does Your Partner Have SMD (Selective Memory Disorder)?

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I'm am at my wits end with my hubby. I can sit down, have a conversation with him about a problem, situation or some future plans, and I swear he's listening (he's looking dead at me or at least nodding in acknowledgement), but then about 20min later he swears I never mentioned anything to him about it. If it's a conversation over future plans, when I re-approach him about it days or weeks later he looks at me as if I just grew two heads and says annoyingly that I never tell him anything! What?! Is he serious? We just recently had an argument over a property that we're selling. I set out the terms and conditions before we even agreed to purchase the property, he agreed to the terms now that the term is up he's saying he never agreed to sell to the tenants. There's another situation where I told him about a deal I was doing and he offered to join in on the deal. He now says he doesn't remember this deal or the terms and he wants his money back. I ask him until I'm blue in the face how is it that I ended up with the money from his account if we didn't have a discussion about the deal and he didn't give the money to me. So then he changes his story and now he admits to giving me the money for the deal but still doesn't acknowledge the deal itself. Then there's the little stuff. I can tell him I'm going to the store and he'll call me and ask me where I am, or when I come home he'll ask me where I was. I can tell him that I'm paying for something, and that there's this much money left and he'll turn around and ask me where all the money went! I just don't understand how you can talk to someone and he/she doesn't listen to you...they hear you but they don't HEAR you. It's quite annoying.