love triangle

Jamaica
October 26, 2008 7:29pm CST
if your with your boyfriend and find another guy but the other guy has a girlfriend and then it just so happens that you and your boyfriend breaks up and your still talking to other guy who still has his girlfriend but doesn't want you to go out and find someine else for yourself. What would you do ? smiles
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8 responses
@Shar1979 (2723)
• United States
27 Oct 08
i have never wanted myself associated in a love triangle especially someone who is involved with another girl. i am a girl myself and i dont want to experience that my bf is seeing othre women. if i am in that situation, i withdraw easily and avoid it. its better that way
• Jamaica
27 Oct 08
what if you have really fallin for the guy ?
• United States
27 Oct 08
It doesn't matter if you've already fallen for him. If he's seeing another girl and has made it known to you that he likes you then you need to realize a few things. 1) He doesn't like you enough to leave her. 2)If he wants to emotionally cheat on her with you then there's a 95% chance that if and when he does get with you then he'll eventually find another girl to leave you for. 3) Find someone who likes you and is willing to BE WITH YOU. Not some guy who doesn't know what the he** he wants.
@Jezebella (1446)
• United States
27 Oct 08
I would ditch the second guy. It sounds like he wants his cake and eat it too. He wants his girlfriend and somewhat keep you stringing in case something happens. I wouldn't go after him because he might do the same to so, so I highly suggest finding someone else who wants you and not make you wait around.
@dyerzie (12)
• Philippines
27 Oct 08
don't go with that LOSER, girl! he don't deserve you... enjoy life! cheerrrrss!!!
@fubler (4)
• Bermuda
27 Oct 08
bad decision, leave that guy,he is not yours, start treating yourself better.for you are worth so much more. right now it seems that treating your self to what you want is more important then respecting yourself, girl that act like you in the end are some lonely people hows' lives are full of drama
@taripres (1499)
• United States
27 Oct 08
That's easy! For one, u shouldn't have cheated in the first place, then with someone who has someone! Now ur single and the other guy who's not doesn't want you to get someone else! Why the ?, simple answer, LEAVE! Why wait around to see what he's going to do, obviously screw u both over, duh! Give the guy 2 fingers and bounce, it wouldn't work at all! Taripre$
@fubler (4)
• Bermuda
27 Oct 08
first of al putting youself in that situation show that you have noclass or respect for your sele or relationships and you deserve all the pain that comes with that type of behavior. I KNOW THIS BECAUSE I ONCE THOUGHT LIVING LIKE THAT WWAS COOL, YOU ARE WORTH MORE SO ACT RIGHY
@rsa101 (22938)
• Philippines
27 Oct 08
Well I barely see the triangle in that story of yours. It seems you are infatuated with him but he is not with you. So there's no real love triangle in there unless I can sense that he is attracted to you in some ways. I guess you just need to go and moved on with your life and get someone that can love you freely without having the complication of love triangles or whatever the situation is.
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
27 Oct 08
I think that is kind a unfair. You make your own life and learn life alone. He doesn't have any right to mind your personal life. Why cause his not your bf and his already committed. I just don't wanna step on someones foot. And I just don't wanna get hurt in the end. I just also don't like to be a second choice or to wait for nothing. I think I deserve something that will be mine and not sharing it with someone. Men has their own way just to get a girl. Anyway have a nice day! God bless!