Do you trust your neighbors to watch your house while on a vacation?

@hdjohnson (2981)
United States
October 26, 2008 9:05pm CST
I grew up in a neighborhood where my MOM could trust our neighbors to watch our property while we were away on vacation for weeks. As a young child, my mother had several friends in the neighborhood who she spoke to on a daily to bi-daily basis. Everyone in our neighborhood loved my MOM and respected her as well. So as I grew up and wanted to have a family of my own. I knew that I wanted to have that type of a relationship with my neighbors where we could watch out for each others' things. Although I don't have a very close relationship with my present neighbors, we have enough repour established that we will watch out for each other's homes. Plus since there has been a few break-ins in the entire community, our home owner's association implemented a neighborhood watch with more police and security patrols. So how about you, TRUST THY NEIGHBOR?
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@nangel78 (1454)
• United States
27 Oct 08
Well some of them I would trust, but others I would not. I still prefer to have someone I have known for years to come by and check on my home. My next door neighbors are good folks. Some of the other people can gossip a bit too much though.
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@fwidman (11514)
• United States
27 Oct 08
When I first moved into my house (fifteen years ago) I had neighbors I could count on to watch the place if I left for a few days. Now, I don't have that luxury. The neighbors are okay, but I am not certain I'd trust them for more than one day
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
27 Oct 08
we have a few i can trust.. the same one always have me watch thier house when they are away
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@taripres (1499)
• United States
28 Oct 08
I don't speak to my neighbors too much so I don't even know if they would watch my house while I'm gone! I'll say hi now and then, but a conversation, nah. I'm pretty personal, so I stay to myself most of the time! Taripre$
@hdjohnson (2981)
• United States
28 Oct 08
Taripes, Wow pretty soon, you will have more posts than I will. Congrats! Keep working it out man.
@taripres (1499)
• United States
3 Nov 08
Thanx, I plan to work it out through a plan, but the earnings and posts aren't adding up anymore! Tryin 2 figure this thing out! Taripre$
• United States
27 Oct 08
We have lived here for 8 months, and I don't know a single one of my neighbors yet. I hate the city. :(
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• United States
27 Oct 08
I have been through the same thing as you. I have just moved into this community and I disagree with you.Even though you don't know anyone in your city you start by making friends with them. At first I didn't have any friends in the new community. But after 2 months, I made lots of friends! So I think you should give it a try too.Hope this helps!
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• United States
27 Oct 08
I wouldn't let someone in your neighbor watch your property while your away. I suggest this because you have not yet learned much information about your neighbor. Plus, like you said, there were a few break-ins in your community. Even though there are more police and security patrols any one you trust by mistake can steal from you. And the bad part is the police or you wouldn't know who stole it. Instead, you should let one of your relatives look after your property.I hope my advise helps!
@hdjohnson (2981)
• United States
28 Oct 08
Watching a house from the outside and giving my keys to a neighbor are too different things. I would not ever give my keys to my home away, unless I knew them since I was small, and they needed a place to stay while we were perhaps on a vacation. I wasn't posing the question for advise, although I do welcome what you have said. And I totally agree with you on the very solid points you've assessed and made quite distinctly clear. I would not allow any more in my present neighborhood to have keys to my home. That to me simply invites trouble. What is some thieves did know were going to take a vacation and leave the keys with neighbor A. The thieves might attempt to make harm neighbor A if they did not give them the keys to my home. That would simple put this neighbor in a terrible position. No, since we rarely go places anyway, we don't usually have this particular challenge.
@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
27 Oct 08
i can trust a few of my neighbours that i have good relationship with... not all though... i live in a complex of 8 units of townhouses and one of my neighbour is the body corporate representative... so we can always count on him to look after my house when i go on a vacation... take care and have a nice day...
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@munhozmib (3837)
• Sao Paulo, Brazil
27 Oct 08
Hello! My mother has a lot of friends in the neighbourhood. Although my mother never trust anybody 100%, she really do trust our neighbours, if they have to watch our house or if they have to enter here to feed the dog. She established this great kind of friendship with everybody, in which there is respect nad happiness together. Respectfully, Munhozmib.
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@vicki2876 (5636)
• Canada
27 Oct 08
My old neighbor here I would trust with my house while I was away. They also trusted me to keep an eye on theirs too. But the moved out early this summer. I don't have a new neighbor yet but I do miss my old neighbor. Even though we were not buddies, we had respect for each other and were both quiet and respected each others space. My neighbor that moved in on the other side I would not trust. He moved in this summer and is a pot head. So I wish he moves. I can smell it while I am outside with my children. Nasty.
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@DonnaLawson (4032)
• United States
28 Oct 08
I did trust my neighbor, she was the one that I mentioned in the last post of yours about sharing food.. I say that I DID, but she moved and now I have new neighbors, who I don't know.. These "new" neighbors are the ones who I am sure called the fire department on us for what they called "illegal burning".. We live in the county and can burn brush legally when we follow proper procedure, which we did.. We have to have a burn permit and follow a set of safety rules to safely burn which we did and have done for the last ten years, but after being in their house for about 2-3 days only, they called and reported us for Illegal burning.. We were legal and were told by the fire department that we were legal and doing nothing wrong, but we still received a $1,200.00 bill from Rural Metro for this 5 minute visit from them to tell us that we were doing nothing wrong, that everything was ok.. Now I have neighbors who I don't believe that I will ever be able to like nor trust and I don't like it at all.. I also have another neighbor on the other side of me who I would trust to keep an eye out on things but she is in her 80's and all she could do it call the police, which she would..
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@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
28 Oct 08
Our neighbors is the first people we call in times of trouble inside our community. I trust them too and we always ask our neighbor to watch our house while we are out of town or at the office or every where. We have the good relationship with them we often talk about the improvement we can do to help others. Having a good relationship with them is simply following to Christ order. "Love thy neighbor."
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@behnke (20)
• South Africa
27 Oct 08
I dont think my neighbours would steel from us but they are so bloody nosy !!The other day we found a woman sitting in a tree watching us !(adult woman or so one would think!) Its terrible and its not like we made a noise or did something funny to prevoke her ,we just hasd a barbeque with friends how embarrasing !)
@hdjohnson (2981)
• United States
27 Oct 08
WOW! Talk about weird and strange phenomenons! I would keep a close, close, close watch out for that one. You will never know, these days.
• United States
27 Oct 08
Our neighbors on one side are extremely nice and trustworthy. As a matter of fact, one of them is my doctor. My mother has multiple times given them a key, had them watch our house, pick up our mail, etc. They also often bring back our dog when he runs out (which is a lot). However, on the other side of our home is a older woman who has often given us reasons to question her sanity. There is no possible way that we would be okay with her watching our house.
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@liquorcs (194)
• Malaysia
27 Oct 08
I do trust my neighbour. Trust is a subjective matter and we can't build it just in a few days. It needs a lot of time and a lot of efforts.
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@sbeauty (5865)
• United States
27 Oct 08
We've only lived in our house for two years, but last summer we trusted our neighbors to watch our property while we took a two week vacation. It was either that, leave it without anyone watching it, or cancel or trip. Even though we haven't known them long, we felt they'd do a good job, and they did. Usually you can tell who will be trustworthy and who won't. Living in small-town, rural Iowa like we do doesn't hurt, either.
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@jhartana (1084)
• Australia
27 Oct 08
Yes I do have a neighbour that I can put my trust in, he's an elderly and retired and can be seen as a person that can be trusted. On my last year holiday I left my spare house keys with him and ask him to take all letters that addressed to me and my wife to be kept with him or put inside my house. He did it very well and I would ask his favor for our upcoming 1 month holiday.
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@mimico (3617)
• Philippines
27 Oct 08
No, I'll ask one of my relatives to look over the house when I'm gone but not my neighbors. I'm not even close with my neighbors. I only know their names and address and that's about it. Haha. We have a pretty big extended family, so anytime someone needs his or her house watched, there's someone in the family who can do it.
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• United States
27 Oct 08
Absolutely. I don't even have to ask them to watch the house. They do it on a daily basis when I'm home, I know they'll do it when I'm away. My block is full of older people who have nothing better to do than call the village police for every little thing (which is both an annoyance and a blessing). I know my home is safe. I had my car parked in front of my house, I had just gotten it. The police knocked on my door and asked if I knew who's car that was parked in front of my house. I said it was mine. The police responded with "Well we received a complaint that the vehicle was abandoned because it hasn't moved in a week." I replied that I didn't have the plates or the title transfer recorded yet so I didn't want to drive it around until the paperwork was in order. He told me to park it in the garage or just move it from one side of the street to the other every other day so it wouldn't spook the neighbors. Okay, so now I park it in the garage.
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@hildas (3031)
27 Oct 08
Yes. I trust a lot of my neighbours, we are all very close around here. We look after each others homes while on vacation. I let my neighbour have my house keys and my alarm number. If my alarm was to go off accidently at least it would be turned of quickly without annoying the whole neighbour hood. I would also collect my neighbours mail, from the floor and put it out of view. I put out the garbage, water their plants and if it is hot 'their grass'. Yes, we certainly look out for each other. Thats what good neighbours do.
@hitejam89 (523)
• India
27 Oct 08
i trust my neighbor they r more like our family. our neighborhood is more than hundred years old. everybody know each other very well. We help each other, celebrate together and have a great time.
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