How do you describe a perfect partner??

@dorothy09 (1520)
Philippines
October 27, 2008 3:58am CST
A perfect partner in life is someone you can be with and talk about anything without realizing that the day was over... Someone who will always listen and feel twice the joy or pain your going thru.. When you start to feel that connection never let it go because there is more to companionship than to love only.. Because in the end, when all else fails and are consumed, you always hold on to those times when you don't even need to hear the words I LOVE YOU... Thanks to my partner.. what is your idle / perfect partner???
2 people like this
20 responses
@Opal26 (17686)
• United States
27 Oct 08
Hi dorothy! You have definitely described what I consider the perfect partner! I was talking to my boyfriend about this yesterday in fact. We don't really talk about "being in love with each other". We don't have that kind of relationship I don't think or at least it goes deeper than that. We are truly partners and best friends. He is very afraid of a relationship/committment with me because I am 11 years older than him. We also are a bi-racial couple which I don't think bothers him at all. But the age thing does. We have been living together for 10 months now and have gotten closer, but I don't know for sure if he wants to stay with me or not. We get along really great, but there is still a part of him that is bothered by the age thing. We do love each other, but I'm not sure in what way he loves me. We are perfect partners, but I don't know if he will every be able to admit that or not. We are perfect partners, but I'm not sure that he can admit it completely, but I do know that he is my perfect partner and I hope that he realizes this before it is too late.
• United States
8 Nov 08
Hi Opal. Your relationship sounds like one I was in a few years ago and I am still friends with the man since we were so good together for a while. I think we let family drive us apart. I am 19 years older and white and he is black. He lived in my home off and on for 3 years, but my children were also there and that caused problems. One of them told me that they thought he was with me for my money........I asked HER where my money was! At least we are still friends, even though we did not part on good terms. Keep your chin up and if you feel that you are right for each other then things will work out if they are meant to be. Good luck!
@Opal26 (17686)
• United States
8 Nov 08
Thanks for the comment. I don't know what will happen but if he leaves. I don't think we can be friends because I will be angry.
• United States
28 Oct 08
Sounds like your perfect partner is my husband of 24 years. We have been together since the age of 15. We used to fight in the early years, but now we are so comfortable with each other that they aren't fights anymore, just disagreements that get talked out until we come to an agreement and then it's over and settled. I hope you have found that perfect partner that you have described. I feel there is a perfect partner for everyone out there and if you wait and don't jump at the first relationship your in (unless that's your perfect partner) you will find them. Good luck to you. I hope you have or find the perfect partner like I have. I can definitly say that we are going to be together forever. We are best friends, lovers, he is my rock, and the greatest, sweetest man in the world.
@taripres (1499)
• United States
27 Oct 08
The perfect partner, don't think I would ever meet her! But I think there is someone for me not too far off! As long as we can talk, do things together, see eye to eye on a few things, complimentary to myself, submissive when needed to be, I'm cool! Taripre$
@hildas (3031)
27 Oct 08
My ideal partner is: Being in the presence of someone who makes my life more complete, more than I ever dreamed that it would be. I turn to them for trust, and they give it openly. When I look for answers and encouragement, not only do they never let you down, they lift up your spirits, and they take your thoughts to places where troubles seem so far away and the joys seem as if it is going to stay in your life forever.
@DINA1005 (55)
• Malaysia
27 Oct 08
In my opinion perfect partner not only between someone that you love like your husband or lover. But perfect partner also was included partner in films or sports .Maybe we ever heard audience said that the actor and actress was the perfect partner in films , that's the only example. I thought for looking someone who was deserved entitled as our perfect partners , it's so hard and difficult, but that was a normal things.For being a perfect partner , a pairs have to more understanding , honest , loyal , being a good listener , patient , good heart also kind and the most important things was relationship . Without relationship no matter what kind of relationship , it's was related because we do care and love . That's only my opinion...
1 person likes this
@reckon21 (3484)
• Philippines
6 Mar 09
A perfect partner to me must be kind and loving. Understanding and can give me the respect and trust that I deserve. In turn I will strive to be the best partner for her the best I can.
@msedge (4012)
• United States
4 Mar 09
My husband is myest partner .He is always there for me.He understands my weaknesses so i am for him.In other words we are prefect partner.We help each other in many ways.We always there for each other.Most of all we share our love for each other.
• Australia
3 Dec 08
I am in an LDR, having met my partner on the internet. He lives in the Northern Hemisphere and I in the southersn, we really couldnt be much farther apart. Right from the start, it felt like it was meant to be, that he was the one that only comes along once in a lifetime, if at all. I wasnt looking for a partner, in fact, thats the last thing I wanted but our first conversation touched me in a way that I had never delt before. As the days turned in to months we are now inseperable. We dont have the physical contact that most relationships have, but we have a much deeper level of love because of it. We communicate constantly, we support each other throughout each day, we have commited ourselves to be there for each other, no matter what until the very end. Our bond has grown strong through the difficulties of our situation. The level of trust needed to survive is at the utmost importance, as is the communication we need just to get through each day. We are always available to each other no matter what else is happening around us. The care he gives me is second to none, its in the little priceless things he does when I least expect it such as the photos he takes and sends me every day, the snowman he built for me late one night when I was feeling down, the e-cards with poetry that takes so long to find because you want to say exactly what you feel inside. Its the smile he always has, the sparkle in his eyes, the time he has for me and the thoughts he puts into making my days as complete as they possibly can be. We had the oportunity to spend some wonderful and most beautiful time together recently. It was the best two months of my life. From the minute he met me at the airport, until the minute we had to say goodbye, our time together was just meant to be. We were completely comfortable with each other, communicating as well, if not better, than we do when we are apart, we shared everything that possibly could be shared between a loving couple and we were totally inseperable. I was sick the whole time I was there but he made sure that I had everything I needed, did everything I was supposed to and showed me a level of love, understanding and complete happiness that I have never felt before. He is my Soulmate, my Twin Flame, my best friend, my lover and soon will be my husband. I am the luckiest person alive because I have much more than I ever felt I would have.
@littleowl (7157)
21 Nov 08
Someone who is loving , thoughtful,wise, that we can comunicate about everything, gentle, funny, honest, considerate, helpful...as well as being my partner I want him to be my best friend, someone who is reliable and dependable yet so we can still have our own independence, trustworthy...loks do not really count with me it is the person's character that is of most importance...hugs littleowl
@idowrite72 (2214)
• United States
8 Nov 08
I don't think there is such a thing as the perfect partner, but I would look for someone who was honest, trusting, open-minded, hardworking, able to openly communicate about everything and anything and want to hold me even when he didn't feel like it because I needed it. Am I asking too much? Does this man exist?
@apples99 (6562)
• United States
27 Oct 08
Well my idea of the perfect partner is someone who's caring responsible and has grate since of humor honest and faithful fun and loves kids and animals and of course someones patient and most of all loves me for who I am.
• Philippines
27 Oct 08
my partner is just about the meaning of a perfect partner uniquely created for me.why? because with all my strength are his weaknesses and with all my weaknesses are His strength. That makes our love solid enough with all the odds. compromising each other, by needing and loving each other.
27 Oct 08
Hi dorothy09, I don't know about perfect partner, but my husband and I have a lot of arguments, but I do know that he is always there for me and helps me out in stcky sistuations when need be, we have been married for 28 years and have no children and he sleeps a lot and loves his food, he is not over weight, far from it as he loves racing on his bicycle, so I don't really know about perfect parner. Tamara
• United States
27 Oct 08
when you get to be my age one that is breathing would be nice LOL
@Gena88 (6)
• South Africa
27 Oct 08
The perfect partner? I think i can right a book aout what my perfect partner should be....See i have this huge problem with this, since i was little i set my standerds real high when it comes to guys, and after finding out what life is all about i now realize that being picky doesnt work out! Its all bout how the guy treats you how well you get along, Ive found my 'perfect partner' he is the one i can share my dreams with make it happen, can go out together and have loads of fun, sharing all the good and bads of life together, and the best thing but him being my perfect partner is that when i'm with him i feel like i can take on the world without any regrets, do what i always wanted to do and most important i can be who i want to be!!!! So the big L word doesnt always play the biggest role in a relationship!!!!
@zandi458 (27948)
• Malaysia
27 Oct 08
A perfect partner to me is someone who can withstand the verbal abuse when I am in the peak of my anger..lol.. and come out of it as if nothing has happened. Someone who can turn a near madbull person to a sweet angel. Well, my expectations are beyond reach for any faint hearted man. And I find it all in my poor husband who tolerated the ugly side of me.
• Philippines
27 Oct 08
An IDEAL or perfect partners are individuals who compliments each others life. Either may it be on his attitude, personality, goals and likes in life. There should be balance in a relationship to make it a perfect match. Understanding one another, supporting one another and loving each other unconditionally would be perfect.
@crazydaisy (3899)
• Canada
27 Oct 08
Me, myself, and I have always been great partners and companions. We trust each other completely! If one of us lies, I know about it right away. Just kidding...you are right. Once you have found that "special" someone, you should never let them go. As far as that goes, I believe EVERYONE is special to me, as they each have something special to offer in their own way. cd
@joy4you (641)
• India
27 Oct 08
Those are very beautiful words, but let me also point aout that the word partner implies "two" people. when you look for the qualities of a perfect partner you should ask your self are YOU a perfect partner? do you have those same qualities in you for your partner. I believe it is only then that your partnership will be truly complete and you can be happy with your partner.
@patzel88 (3311)
• Philippines
27 Oct 08
a perfect partner for me is that when the time of problems they always be there to support and the love never fades. the day is always a great day for us and even the downs we still do have fun day and we smile for the bad times arrive on us. no one can tear us apart for we always strengthen the love that we have shared. the family is the first acheivements. i am thankful that my love always with me and guide me for what ever mistakes i made because i know that i am not perfect and so to him.