your friend is your ex's newest girl

Philippines
October 27, 2008 5:11am CST
what will you do if your friend (moreso your bestfriend) is the current girl of your ex, whom you loved faithfully and dearly? what will you do when you are already hurting?
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Ravenladyj
@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
27 Oct 08
Well if I'm still hurting over the break up it would mean its still new, it happened recently...if thats the case and my best friend started dating him that wouldnt be a friend to me and I'd pretty much tell her to bugger off....If it was an OLD break up though, I wouldnt still be hurting, the ex and I would be friends and him dating my friend woldnt bother me
red_amethyst
@red_amethyst (3518)
• Philippines
27 Oct 08
hi! it depends on how me and my ex broke up. if it was in a nice way, I will be glad that its my best friend that he chose. but if it was not on a nice way lets say he cheated on me, then i'll talk to my best friend. tell her what happened and i'll tell her to be extra cautious for it might happen to her also. its up to her if she'll listen or not. but of course, our friendship will be slightly affected. good luck. take care
prettyhanan
@prettyhanan (694)
• Malaysia
27 Oct 08
it doesnt mean if have brake up with ur boy u cannot be his friend.. it goes the same to ur friend, who is his girlfriend.. Although i just 17 but what i know, friendship is better than having serious realtionship unless you wanna getting marry..