Can men cheat and change

United States
October 27, 2008 10:46pm CST
what do you think about men who cheat can a man really change his ways?since everyone makes mistakes should he be forgiven or is it once a cheat always a cheat i feel women in the past held on to their familys no matter what whereas women of today are more prone to keep it moving why do you think that is?
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@ralphido (842)
• India
20 Dec 08
well.. if you really wanna know.. either a man would have to really get the best thing he could ever wish for or he would have to cheat himself by changing himself...both are very unlikely.. so i guess the easier way is to change woman...;)
20 Dec 08
Anyway, it's not just mean who cheats, women as well. Both are the same when it comes to relationship if somebody is not happy with the relationship, they always find something better. But then when they realised that what they've done just made the situation worsts, they always repent and change for the better. And it's upto their girlfriend or boyfriend if they will forgive the person who cheats. Anyway can change for the better, even sometimes it means to end the relationship.
• Malaysia
28 Oct 08
I can't say that when a man cheats, he will cheat always. However based on my own experience I find that if a person is a cheater, no matter if he is a man or a woman, he or she will stay to be like that forever. A cheating attitude is very difficult to get rid of. In fact my sister is one of them. She has been cheating all her life, and she thinks nobody knows about it. But family members are still family members, we know everything about other members. She thinks she can get away with her cheating every time. But she doesn't know that I know what she has been doing. The same goes with the man you love. If a man always cheats, it is a strong probability that he might not change his attitude. But there are always exceptions and you should observe closely if there is any changes in the behavior of the man you love. You should know him better than everyone else so you would know if he really changed or not. Many women now choose to keep moving than staying because now we are more independent and we don't need men to take care of us. In many cases it is the women who take care of the men. As for me I am not sure yet because the situation had not come into my life.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
30 Oct 08
I think it's up to you your patience and how much you love him, and it'sa how you handle your man for not having other women around. Men can only love one women, and will always be home to that partner we really love. Men are born polygamous by nature. Men does't have anything to loose not like women. But if he cheats once well something is wrong, I think you should ask him why, a realtionship will work out if your both working it out. Now if he still cheats on you. Well that is a different story. Just let him realized your value and importance, give him time and space. If it is really meant for you he will come back and change for the better. Have a nice day!
@kwenge (2487)
• Kenya
30 Oct 08
Yes men can cheat.........the changing part depends on the individual cheater and the person he cheats on. But change is the only constant thing in nature. We all deserve a second chance but if after that you cheat again then you deserve to be divorsed and forgoten by the wife and even children.
• Philippines
20 Dec 08
There is a man who has been married for more than 2 x. He married again and now he is cheating his wife saying to his new found love that he really did not love his wife but loves her more... Has this guy changed? Does this guy deserve another chance after so much trial and error? Does he deserve a second chance when he can simply dump anyone when he is not satisfied with them...come on.
@mjmlagat (3170)
• Philippines
28 Oct 08
Yes, I believe that men can cheat but they are also capable of change--change for the better, that is. All of us deserves a second chance and it's not good to deprive them of such. It's un-Christian.
@myhuni (112)
• New Zealand
28 Oct 08
Hi I do not think that men can cheat then change once a cheater all ways a cheater.
@Shar1979 (2722)
• United States
28 Oct 08
i am a believer that anyone can change. if they do it repeatedly then you have to avoid then. you dont have to waste your time and affection to some worthless cheaters. there are guys who learn from their mistakes