married but single?
By jesus777
@jesus777 (662)
Bermuda
October 28, 2008 9:51am CST
hey women are you in a marriage where you feel lonely and depressed and alone do you feel like you are the head of the household like you have to be the mother and farther to your kids even though you are married
one of my best friends is in this situation she is married and its almost like she has had 3 kids all by herself because the farther is never around they live in the same house but i see no action or support from the farther at all
men your wives need you your kids needs you marriage is supposed to be a two way street not a one way street so men step up and be men and take care of your responsibilities.
i know sometimes it is the other way around the men are the victims while the women are out getting high partying and doing whatever the husband is home cooking cleaning and taking care of the kids
so the bottom line is the men needs to be the men of the household and the women need to be the women of the household take the roles and places that god needs you to have!!!
happy mylotting
chow for now!!!!!
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@missberlee (467)
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28 Oct 08
You see, I completely understand this. I am a married woman, but sometimes, I long for those days when I was single again.
Me and my husban have had more than our fair share of troubles in our two year marriage, and if anything else happens, it's over for me! I do love him, but sometimes there is no point in hanging on to something that simply isn't there!
Men have this wierd built in thing, I think, where they do not understand the concept of monogamy and everything else that a marriage needs. Well, the men I come across don't get it anyway. Maybe I'm wrong and I just pick the worst ever men, but right now, I love my husband to bits. Tomorrow, I could be single. It's funny how the world works!
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@jesus777 (662)
• Bermuda
2 Nov 08
marriage was built for two but when one of the two strays that is when the problems start as long as there is two then it should not be issues but if there is a third person a mistress or a male lover then that is when the problems arise marriage is a two way street and not a three and four!!!!!
@bamakelly (5191)
• United States
28 Oct 08
I would have to say that I don't necessarily feel lonely and depressed in my marriage. I do agree that marriage is a two way street. You need bother partners to contribute regularly for it to work out right.
I don't believe in the father not being around for the woman with children. It just doesn't work for me. A family should stick together with both parents working together and not to be abandoned for any reason.
Children are so impressionable. Everything we parents do is a reflection upon them and and integral part of their lives. Men do need to stand up and be a man and the woman should be there to support him. 
@jesus777 (662)
• Bermuda
2 Nov 08
amen to that children need to loving parents not one because if they do not receive the love at home then girls would go looking for in a man but if there mother was not around they may turn out to be lesbians and that would be another problem and if boys do not have the father they may turn out to be gay so it is best too get the love and support from both parents at home!!!!!
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