Do you overlook minoor mistakes for teh sake of the relationship?
By mercuryman3a
@mercuryman3a (2477)
India
October 29, 2008 12:30am CST
I have a co-brother who can not stand my brother-in-laws or my father-in-law as he feel aggrieved for soem perveived hurt given to him some 20-25 years back. he has not beenable to come to terms with it till date. He is still seeting with rage and flares up whenever my in-laws try to speak to him.
i on the other hand maintain that many monor mistakes cn be ovber looked for teh sake of maintaining a relationship. if we start getting hurt for every small thing, we can never maintain any relationship.
What do you people think?
2 responses
@bbsr13 (4196)
• India
29 Oct 08
Hello! To maintain good relationship with your parents or your brothers and sisters and even your wife you have to tolerant and you have to adjust to circumstances.But the egoistic people never consider other people's viewpoint and never like to adjust to circumstance for which the relationship breaks.For a good relationship one must sacrifice his ego first and then learn to understand people's choice and their viewpoint and adjust to situations.thanx.
@nilugo (348)
• Singapore
29 Oct 08
I agree with you - it is no use getting angry over minor arguments - if you do that you will end up always angry and life is too short to be agry all the time. I believe that we should always try to see the good things in people -afte all, none of us are perfect, to say the least.
